The lines between hanging out and dating can be blurry, especially if you haven't talked about having a relationship. If you'd rather not have the "are we dating?" talk, there are signs you can look for to see if you're basically dating. If you do want to DTR (define the relationship), we'll explain which signs indicate you're ready to discuss it. Read through our comprehensive list of tell-tale signs and see how many resonate with you.

Things You Should Know

  • If you can't keep your hands off of each other and often get mistaken as a couple, you could be unofficially dating.
  • Additional signs include talking about each other like you're already a couple, using pet names, and including each other in future plans.
  • If you've met each others' families and know there's more to your relationship than just sex, it's likely you're unofficially dating.
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You call or text each other constantly.

  1. You two always want to know what's going on with each other. You just can't wait until you see each other again! Texting or calling is your way of staying connected—you both message about interesting or funny things that happen throughout your day or you ask for their opinion.[1]
    • Are they the first person you text in the morning or the last person you say goodnight to? This is a sign you're pretty close to each other.
    • Think about when you call or text each other—if it's at all hours day or night, you've probably moved into dating territory.
    • If their texts are personal and specific, not just memes, it's a good sign you're not in the friend zone.
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Christina Jay, NLP
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This article was co-authored by Christina Jay, NLP and by wikiHow staff writer, Jessica Gibson. Christina Jay is a Matchmaker and Certified Life Coach based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Christina is the founder of Preferred Match (preferredmatch.ca), her matchmaking service that finds love for successful and elite individuals. She has over 10 years of coaching experience, earned her NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) certification through NLP Canada Training, and has a BA in Business Administration from Brock University. This article has been viewed 11,461 times.
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