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Out of all the words in the English language, “hey” from a girl on Tinder wins the award for most confusing and frustrating. The good news is, if you’re scrambling to come up with a reply and get her interested, we’ve got you covered. We worked with a professional dating coach to put together 11 different tried-and-true ways to respond. Read on for the top tips and example messages to fire up a real conversation when a girl sends you “hey” on Tinder.
This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach and licensed social worker, Julianne Cantarella. Check out the full interview here.
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QuestionHow do you tell if someone on Tinder is a scammer?Maya Diamond, MAMaya Diamond is a Dating and Relationship Coach in Berkeley, CA. She has 13 years of experience helping singles stuck in frustrating dating patterns find internal security, heal their past, and create healthy, loving, and lasting partnerships. She received her Master's in Somatic Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies in 2009.
Relationship CoachTinder scammers often say "I love you" really soon after you match, even though they haven't even met you in real life. Additionally, scammers will often say they're in another country working and need money to get back to the United States (or where you're living). In general, they'll tell you about problems in their life that require money they need from you. It's never a good idea to send money to someone you've met online, even if they seem like a kind person who really cares for you. Just don't do it.
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- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZJPhN2A-D3Y&t=210s
- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
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- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
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- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/g729/colton-haynes-flirting-tips-for-girls/?slide=1
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a37411573/best-flirty-emojis/
- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
- ↑ https://textgod.com/texting-rules-for-guys/