This article was co-authored by Alessandra Conti and by wikiHow staff writer, Caroline Heiderscheit. Alessandra Conti is a Celebrity Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and Co-Founder of Matchmakers In The City, a personal Matchmaking firm headquartered in Los Angeles, California. Alessandra is a Matchmaker behind MTV's, “Are You The One”, and is the go-to Celebrity Matchmaker for shows like NBC's Access Hollywood, and CBS's Face The Truth. Her dating and relationship advice has been featured on Forbes, Elite Daily, The New Yorker, The LA Times, and Fox News. For nearly 10 years, Alessandra has worked with clients ranging from celebrities to young professionals and leads a team of matchmakers responsible for hundreds of marriages through their knowledge of interpersonal relationships, body language, and lie detection. She holds a BA in Communications from American University and is a Matchmaking Institute Certified Matchmaker (CMM).
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If you're wondering what guys find attractive, you've come to the right place. In this article, we'll dish all the best secrets for making yourself irresistible to guys. We'll talk about some easy tweaks you can make to your appearance, and we'll also cover simple strategies for upping your flirting game so you can take things to the next level. If you're ready for guys to flock to you everywhere you go, read on!
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QuestionHow do I attract guys if I don't like the way I look?Alessandra ContiAlessandra Conti is a Celebrity Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and Co-Founder of Matchmakers In The City, a personal Matchmaking firm headquartered in Los Angeles, California. Alessandra is a Matchmaker behind MTV's, “Are You The One”, and is the go-to Celebrity Matchmaker for shows like NBC's Access Hollywood, and CBS's Face The Truth. Her dating and relationship advice has been featured on Forbes, Elite Daily, The New Yorker, The LA Times, and Fox News. For nearly 10 years, Alessandra has worked with clients ranging from celebrities to young professionals and leads a team of matchmakers responsible for hundreds of marriages through their knowledge of interpersonal relationships, body language, and lie detection. She holds a BA in Communications from American University and is a Matchmaking Institute Certified Matchmaker (CMM).
Celebrity Matchmaker & Dating CoachTry starting from the outside and working your way in, because when you look good, you feel good. A very simple thing that can boost how attractive you feel is going to the gym regularly. It helps you get in shape and releases endorphins that help you feel good. Also, if it's in your budget, consider working with a personal stylist. They can help you put together outfits that will be attractive to whoever you're interested in. -
QuestionIs appearance all that matters when it comes to attracting a guy?Alessandra ContiAlessandra Conti is a Celebrity Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and Co-Founder of Matchmakers In The City, a personal Matchmaking firm headquartered in Los Angeles, California. Alessandra is a Matchmaker behind MTV's, “Are You The One”, and is the go-to Celebrity Matchmaker for shows like NBC's Access Hollywood, and CBS's Face The Truth. Her dating and relationship advice has been featured on Forbes, Elite Daily, The New Yorker, The LA Times, and Fox News. For nearly 10 years, Alessandra has worked with clients ranging from celebrities to young professionals and leads a team of matchmakers responsible for hundreds of marriages through their knowledge of interpersonal relationships, body language, and lie detection. She holds a BA in Communications from American University and is a Matchmaking Institute Certified Matchmaker (CMM).
Celebrity Matchmaker & Dating CoachNo, being happy in your life is also so vital when it comes to attracting a partner. If you're not happy in your life, you are not going to attract anybody, let alone a romantic partner. Working on your own mental well-being and happiness is so important. Also, when you're on a date, it's important to just really enjoy your time and focus on the moment instead of worrying about attracting the other person.
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- ↑ https://wwmesg.org/6-traits-of-immensely-attractive-people/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/201206/there-s-magic-in-your-smile
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202110/the-romantic-power-eye-contact
- ↑ https://hernorm.com/outfits-guys-find-most-attractive/
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/style-beauty/beauty/advice/g2711/makeup-looks-men-love/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201706/11-key-flirting-techniques-women
- ↑ https://time.com/2859728/science-of-sexy-5-things-that-can-make-you-irresistible/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-sociability/201611/how-get-someone-you
- ↑ https://verilymag.com/2017/05/bartender-secrets-for-meeting-men-at-bars
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- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2011/02/02/secret-body-language-dating-social-millionaire-matchmaker/
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To attract guys, try to wear clothes that you like and feel comfortable in, so you attract guys who’ll like you for who you really are. When you want guys to talk to you, try to keep an open, approachable manner and smile a lot to show that you're open to talking. If you want to get the attention of a particular guy, try to make eye contact to show that you notice him. Don’t be afraid to start a conversation if he doesn’t, by commenting on something you have in common or asking him a question. For example, you might say something like, “The homework was really hard last night,” or, “I can’t wait for the weekend. Do you have any plans?” For more tips, including how to tell if a guy’s interested in you by watching his body language, read on!