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Striking up a conversation with someone IRL is tough enough—but figuring out what to say on Instagram might be even harder. If you stumble across someone that seems super cool but you just can’t figure out what to say, you’re not alone! Fortunately, there are a lot of different ways you can open up a dialogue with a girl.
Here are 11 foolproof ways to start a conversation with a girl you like on Instagram.
Steps
Examples of Conversation Starters to Grab a Girl's Attention
Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow many times should I talk to someone online before meeting them?Cher GopmanCher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
Dating CoachI'd suggest that you have at least 5 conversations online before meeting up with someone. The exception might be if you meet on Tinder or Bumble and there's a crazy immediate connection where the two of you share some mutual interest, but in general, you want to chat a few times before meeting up. -
QuestionHow can I build a connection with someone over Instagram?Cher GopmanCher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
Dating CoachTry to find a mutual interest that both of you share and lean into that. It's a lot easier to connect with someone if you have something in common that gets both of you excited. -
QuestionHow do you start a conversation with a non-binary person on Instagram?Community AnswerTalk to them as you would do with anyone else, except don't use gendered pronouns or words. Just talk about stuff you like, and listen to them talk about that stuff back. It's that simple.
Warnings
- Never send an inappropriate or sexual photo without asking first.⧼thumbs_response⧽
References
- ↑ https://bestlifeonline.com/instagram-flirting/
- ↑ https://swipelife.tinder.com/post/online-flirting
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/202012/what-is-your-flirting-style-how-do-you-flirt
- ↑ https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/03/146596/how-to-slide-into-dms-instagram-guide#slide-4
- ↑ https://swipelife.tinder.com/post/online-flirting
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 17 May 2019.
- ↑ https://bestlifeonline.com/instagram-flirting/
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=225&v=8dx6bNyVUxE&feature=youtu.be
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/202012/what-is-your-flirting-style-how-do-you-flirt