Do you sense that you have a profound bond with a person? If so, maybe you want to know if your two souls are connected. Here, we'll reveal what a soul connection is and explain the different types of soul connections you'll encounter. Read on to explore how soul connections will shape you during your spiritual journey.

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What is a soul connection?

  1. A soul connection is a spiritual bond between lovers, family, or friends. Not every soul connection is romantic—some can be platonic or familial. Anyone who has this special, soul-deep relationship with you is also known as a “soul mate.” Soul mates who share soul connections with you help you navigate life—some aid you in overcoming obstacles while others invite you to celebrate your blessings. Each one of your soul connections are important for your growth and spiritual evolution.[1]
    • Not all soul mates will stay in our lives, but we’ll always have a special connection with them.[2]
    • Soul mates serve different roles. For example, you may serve as someone’s soul teacher while also acting as another person’s spiritual student.
    • Soul connections can bring “spirit guides.” For example, if someone is in your “soul family” and they pass away, they may become your spirit guide.[3]
    • Some soul connections are “soul contracts"—in these cases, you communicated with other souls before all of you reincarnated, or went through another cycle of life on Earth. You all agreed to meet on Earth to fulfill an important mission in this lifetime.[4]
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Types of Soul Connections

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    Soul partners are people you meet to fulfill your calling in life. They can be friends, lovers, relatives, or even colleagues. You’ll encounter many soul partners during your spiritual journey, and they’ll all help with your life’s purpose. Their contributions can be either significant or small.[5]
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    Soul ties occur with people you instantly feel an intense connection to. Whenever a new person is meant to enter your life, you’ll feel like you have space in your heart for them. For example, you’ll suddenly be excited to be single and date, then find an amazing partner. You may also randomly go to a social gathering, like a party, where you’ll meet your best friend.[6]
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    Romantic soul mates are lovers who impart important life lessons. A romantic soul mate may be someone you end up spending the rest of your life with, or they might have only spent a few months with you. Either way, you’ll discover more about yourself, the way you express love, and the patterns you have in romantic dynamics.[7]
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    Twin flames are halves of one soul that exist in two separate bodies. When you meet your twin flame, it will be an incredibly intense experience. You’ll challenge each other, but you’ll also heal the spiritual wounds you carry as a soul that’s been split in half. While many seek out these unique relationships, not every lover needs to be your "twin flame" in order to enhance your spiritual growth.[8]
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    Past life soul mates are those you reunite with when you’re reincarnated. Once you both meet each other again, you’ll feel a sense of relief and amazement. It’ll seem as though you waited your entire life to find this person—this won’t be an understatement, because it’s likely you came back together after several lifetimes. In fact, it might have been centuries since the last time you were together.[9]
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    Karmic soul mates help you fix negative karma so you grow spiritually. If you need to make amends for actions in this lifetime or a previous one, a karmic soul mate will seek you out. When you bond with this person and support them, you’ll start your journey to heal and purify your spirit. As you evolve with a karmic soul mate, you’ll transform negative karma into positive karma.[10]
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    Soul friends are platonic companions put on your path to support you. You’ll run across many soul friends in your lifetime—some will follow you through every stage of your journey, while others stay for just a short period of time. Your soul friends will encourage and inspire you as you navigate different risks, challenges, and transitions. [11]
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    Soul families are spiritual tribes that share your same goals. Soul families can include blood relatives as well as your “chosen family.” Some people who are placed in the same soul family are destined to break a negative pattern, such as addiction. Anyone who has the same vision–like saving the environment or fighting for equal rights–is also in the same soul family, even if you’ve never met. [12]
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    Soul teachers show up in your life when you need guidance. If you need extra support for a new life transition, calling, or a special kind of inner work—like overcoming a fear of public speaking—a soul teacher will find you and act as your mentor. When someone else needs your wisdom and insight, they may become your soul student.[13]
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    Kindred spirits are people with similar values who you get along with. They may not always be “soul mates” and might only be in your life for a brief moment, but you’ll find their company really refreshing. However, some kindred spirits may make repeat appearances in your life—for example, you might reconnect with an old high school friend throughout the year and discuss your creative projects.[14]
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    Soul crossings occur during meaningful short-term encounters. You may experience a transitional soul crossing with a lover during a quick, passionate affair—this person may teach you the value of vulnerability or spontaneity. Soul crossings also happen when you meet anyone who imparts an important lesson, like someone you spoke with in a coffee shop whose wisdom you can’t forget.[15]
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Signs of a Soul Connection

  1. All types of soul connections share some common signs. All soul connections are unique and can be platonic, romantic, or familial. See if you've noticed synchronicities—or random but meaningful events—like these:[16]
    • You feel like you’ve known a person for a long time—even if you’ve just met.
    • You meet them during an important transition in life, like a move or breakup.
    • You both notice a lot of coincidences, like showing up in the same places.
    • Your journeys are similar—you’ve had the same challenges or successes.
    • Your value systems are aligned—you easily agree with each other.
    • You can practically read each other's minds—it's almost like telepathy.
    • You're both really intuitive and pick up on one another's emotions.
    • You empower each other and help one another with your life missions.
    • You feel strong, capable, and powerful in each other's presence.
    • You both accept each other unconditionally.
    • You provide each other with unforgettable spiritual lessons.

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This article was co-authored by wikiHow staff writer, Madeleine Flamiano. Madeleine Flamiano is an Editing Fellow at wikiHow based in Berkeley, California, as well as a Team Organizer, Copy Editor, and Movie Critic for Incluvie. Madeleine has 12 years of experience in literacy advocacy and the creative arts that span tutoring, teaching, writing, public relations, and non-profit support. She has penned seven novels under a pseudonym and loves all escapist genres, from cozy fantasies to hard-boiled sci-fi. Her professional path started at NaNoWriMo, where she scripted and hosted a series on worldbuilding. Madeleine graduated from Mills College with a B.A. in English with a concentration in Literature and a Minor in Philosophy. This article has been viewed 39,412 times.
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