This article was co-authored by Connell Barrett and by wikiHow staff writer, Kira Jan. Connell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation in New York City. Connell has over five years of experience as an international coach who helps men connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. He is the author of the Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” and has appeared on Good Morning America, the "Today" show, Access Hollywood, and in Best Life, Cosmopolitan, and The Oprah Magazine. In 2019 he was named Datezie.com's “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach."
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How exactly do you make a guy feel sexy? Making your guy feel wanted and attractive can boost his confidence, strengthen your relationship, and heat up your love life. From gentle touches and a little extra attention to emotional connection, we’ve got all the hot tips to make your man feel desirable. Get ready to treat your guy right—and make him want you even more.
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QuestionHow do I win a man's heart?Connell BarrettConnell Barrett is a Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation in New York City. Connell has over five years of experience as an international coach who helps men connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. He is the author of the Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t,” and has appeared on Good Morning America, the "Today" show, Access Hollywood, and in Best Life, Cosmopolitan, and The Oprah Magazine. In 2019 he was named Datezie.com's “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach."
Dating CoachGive him compliments about his physical fitness, career successes, or his charisma to make fim feel good. -
QuestionWhere exactly should you touch him?Community AnswerYou can touch him wherever feels natural, as long as he's comfortable with it, too. His stomach, neck, ears, and hair are all great places.
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QuestionWhat if the guy is shy?Community AnswerIf the guy is shy, you may have to start with subtler ways of making him feel sexy. Compliments, gentle touches, and eye contact are great ways to start. Make sure you communicate by asking him if he likes being touched in a certain way. You may want to avoid PDA.
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- ↑ Connell Barrett. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 18 February 2021
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- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/g2152/how-to-give-sensual-massage/
- ↑ https://love.allwomenstalk.com/try-these-kissing-challenges-with-your-boyfriend/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/myths-desire/201812/5-ways-help-man-feel-desired
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- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a33083881/good-night-text-ideas/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/myths-desire/201812/5-ways-help-man-feel-desired
- ↑ https://www.meetmindful.com/making-your-man-feel-loved/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/5-ways-to-help-your-partner-feel-loved#2
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201001/darling-are-you-proud-me
- ↑ http://theweek.com/articles/446522/science-sexy-6-things-that-make-irresistible
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/02/22/17-questions-to-ask-your-partner-to-deepen-your-connection/
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Making your man feel sexy is an important part of keeping your romance alive. Compliment his body and fashion sense when he looks good. For example, touch his chest and say, “You look so good in that shirt.” If he posts a selfie on social media, comment on it or message him privately to tell him he looks great. You can also look up and down his body when he’s watching you and give him a flirty smile to show him that you find him attractive. Pay attention to the things that make him feel sexy and focus on those the most. For more tips, including how to make a guy you’re crushing on feel special, read on!