If you want to show up on a girl's radar, chances are you'll need to have a social media presence. With so many platforms available, it's easy to feel overwhelmed or wonder how she'll ever notice you. Fortunately, there are simple tricks you can use to stand out from the crowd and get her attention.

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Follow her on her biggest platform.

  1. This sends a subtle sign that she's on your radar. If you suddenly start following her on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and her YouTube channel, she may be a little creeped out by your overwhelming interest. Instead, play it cool and pick her biggest platform so it's not weird if you suddenly start commenting or liking her content. Although any of these platforms are good for flirting, Facebook and Twitter are great at sending lots of notifications that can help you get noticed.[1]
    • You don't want to scare her off with your interest, which is why it's important to blend in a little on social media.
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Comment occasionally.

  1. Don't comment first on her posts or comment on every single one. Doing this can make it look like you've been watching and waiting for her to drop some content. Wait until a few people have already posted before you add your comment. Also, limit yourself to 1 comment per post since multiple comments may turn her off.[5]
    • Skip commenting on hugely popular posts, especially ones where everyone's basically commenting the same thing like "Congratulations" or "Happy Birthday."
    • If you comment on every single one of her posts, she'll think you look way too eager or you've got a lot of time on your hands.
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Share positive content on your profiles.

  1. Post unique or uplifting information so she likes what she sees. Sure, everyone has days that they just want to complain about life, but that's not really the vibe you want to send her. You're trying to show that you have a fun, upbeat personality so she's attracted to you. You might share updates about hitting the gym, eating at a great restaurant, or going out to see the newest blockbuster, for instance.[7]
    • Glance through her platforms to see what kind of posts she shares and share similar content. For instance, if she loves photography, share a few artsy black and white photos. This can help you create a connection.
    • Avoid negative posts that show you smoking, drinking, or doing things that might turn her off.
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Send her a direct message.

  1. Start a conversation that could lead to a date. If you feel like she's aware of you and interested, send her a direct message and just comment on something she posted or that you have in common. If she messages back, keep it going. You could even suggest meeting up if it seems like you're hitting it off.[11]
    • For instance, send her a message like, "Your artwork blew me away. I love how you use photography and painting to make your work."
    • If she replies and you message back and forth a few times, it's totally fine to say something like, "Hey, do you want to grab drinks or coffee sometime?"
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Expert Q&A

  • Question
    What will make a girl fall for you on Facebook?
    Christina Jay, NLP
    Christina Jay, NLP
    Matchmaker & Certified Life Coach
    Christina Jay is a Matchmaker and Certified Life Coach based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Christina is the founder of Preferred Match (preferredmatch.ca), her matchmaking service that finds love for successful and elite individuals. She has over 10 years of coaching experience, earned her NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) certification through NLP Canada Training, and has a BA in Business Administration from Brock University.
    Christina Jay, NLP
    Matchmaker & Certified Life Coach
    Expert Answer
    You may not be able to get a girl to totally fall for you online, but you might be able to pique her interests. Interact with her posts occasionally and don't come on to strong. She'll scan your profile eventually and if she thinks you're cute she may reach out.
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This article was co-authored by Christina Jay, NLP and by wikiHow staff writer, Jessica Gibson. Christina Jay is a Matchmaker and Certified Life Coach based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Christina is the founder of Preferred Match (preferredmatch.ca), her matchmaking service that finds love for successful and elite individuals. She has over 10 years of coaching experience, earned her NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) certification through NLP Canada Training, and has a BA in Business Administration from Brock University. This article has been viewed 23,930 times.
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