If you know someone who needs alone time to rest and recharge, then you probably know an introvert. Since introverts are usually a little more soft-spoken and reserved, getting close to them can be kind of tough. Fortunately, there are a few ways you can get an introverted person to open up to you and form a real connection with them over time.

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Try not to talk over them.

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Understand if they just need to stay home.

  1. It doesn’t mean they don’t like you, it just means they’re tired. Different introverted people need different amounts of alone time to rest and recharge. If you’ve been hanging out with your introverted friend a lot, don’t take it personally if they tell you they need some time away from you. Chances are, when you see them again, they’ll be rested and happy to hang out.[12]
    • Many introverted people understand that it’s frustrating to hear a “no thanks” over and over. Your introverted friend will appreciate it if you don’t get mad at them for taking care of their own needs.

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    How do you interact with an introvert?
    Asa Don Brown, PhD, DNCCM, FAAETS Dr. Asa Don Brown is a Clinical Psychologist with over 25 years of experience. He specializes in working with families, children, and couples, treating a variety of psychological disorders, trauma, and abuse. Dr. Brown has specialized in negotiation and profiling. He is also a prolific author having published three books and numerous articles in magazines, journals, and popular publications. Dr. Brown earned a BS in Theology and Religion with a minor in Marketing and an MS in Counseling with a specialization in Marriage and Family from The University of Great Falls. Furthermore, he received a PhD in Psychology with a specialization in Clinical Psychology from Capella University. He is also a candidate for a Masters of Liberal Arts through Harvard University. Dr. Brown is a Fellow of the American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress and a Diplomate for the National Center for Crisis Management and continues to serve a number of psychological and scientific boards.
    Asa Don Brown, PhD, DNCCM, FAAETS
    Clinical Psychologist
    Expert Answer
    You must establish rapport and trust first. As you develop this rapport, you will develop a healthy relationship with this individual. In time, as the relationship naturally develops, you will discover more and more about this individual, which will help your interactions.
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This article was co-authored by Asa Don Brown, PhD, DNCCM, FAAETS and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Dr. Asa Don Brown is a Clinical Psychologist with over 25 years of experience. He specializes in working with families, children, and couples, treating a variety of psychological disorders, trauma, and abuse. Dr. Brown has specialized in negotiation and profiling. He is also a prolific author having published three books and numerous articles in magazines, journals, and popular publications. Dr. Brown earned a BS in Theology and Religion with a minor in Marketing and an MS in Counseling with a specialization in Marriage and Family from The University of Great Falls. Furthermore, he received a PhD in Psychology with a specialization in Clinical Psychology from Capella University. He is also a candidate for a Masters of Liberal Arts through Harvard University. Dr. Brown is a Fellow of the American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress and a Diplomate for the National Center for Crisis Management and continues to serve a number of psychological and scientific boards. This article has been viewed 10,540 times.
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