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You've been dreaming about this kiss for ages. In your fantasies, it always goes perfectly, but reality is never quite the same. To make sure you're ready and comfortable for the kiss, it's important to make a few real-life preparations. You can prepare yourself by primping with some perfume, giving yourself a pep talk, and leading up to the kiss with some cuddling. Your real life kiss might not resemble one from your dreams, but if you're ready and comfortable, it will feel even better.
Steps
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2Tell yourself that everything will be okay. Because it will be okay! Nothing bad is going to happen. Plus it's "your" choice that you're doing this, nobody else's. You can always say no if you want to. But once you get into the kissing - you'll enjoy, and will be fine!Advertisement
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3Start by cuddling. Never just go in for the kiss unless you want to and you know your partner is okay with it too.[3] This will ease any nerves you have too.
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4Slowly look up at him.[4] Start giggling gently and look into his eyes, this will ease his nerves because he knows that you're comfortable. Maybe take his hand and give it a squeeze.
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5Look at his lips. And then look back up at his eyes. This is hinting you'd like a kiss.[5]
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6The guy should then get the idea and you should both lean in and make the kiss natural.
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7Don't make it awkward at the end. Say something or giggle. Maybe squeeze his hand again. Or create a sudden goodbye. You could nicely say, "I've got to go now, but I'll speak later."
Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do you know if a guy wants to kiss you?
Laura BilottaLaura Bilotta is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Founder of Single in the City, her dating and relationship coaching service based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. With over 18 years of experience, she focuses on helping singles date more intentionally, encouraging them to let go of negative patterns so that they can attract the love that they deserve. Her experience, skills, and insights have led to thousands of successfully united over 65,000 singles through events and one-on-one matchmaking coaching sessions. She has been the host of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto (AM640) for 6 years and is known as The Hookup Queen of Clubhouse; her popular singles club, Single in the City, has over 95.5K members who regularly join in weekly dating and relationship-focused rooms.
Dating Coach & MatchmakerThe main way to tell if a guy wants to kiss you is by checking out his body language. Most guys won’t ask you if they can kiss you, but you can pick up some signs, like gazing into your eyes and breaking contact, being close to your body, touching you in subtle ways or giving you a cheeky smile!
Warnings
- If the guy pushes you further into anything other than a kiss, and you don't want to, do not let him. He does not have the right to do that.⧼thumbs_response⧽
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References
- ↑ https://www.ghanaweb.com/GhanaHomePage/entertainment/Lifestyle-10-qualities-that-make-guys-fall-in-love-523623
- ↑ https://www.romper.com/p/7-scents-that-make-you-more-attractive-according-to-science-7921541
- ↑ https://pandagossips.com/posts/5054
- ↑ https://pandagossips.com/posts/5054
- ↑ https://wzakcleveland.com/3469663/7-ways-to-get-a-guy-to-kiss-you/
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