How to Attract a Libra Man As a Gemini Woman

Written by Angel Eyedealism | Edited by Amber Crain

Last Updated: January 31, 2023

As air signs, Gemini and Libra have a lot in common—you're both cerebral, social, and fun-loving folks. But are you romantically compatible with each other? We've consulted astrology experts about this zodiac pairing and we're ready to dish the juicy details! Keep reading for our comprehensive guide on how a Gemini woman can attract and date the Libra man of her dreams.

This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

1

Look him in the eye.

A Libra man lives for the electric thrill of eye contact. Anything that gives this guy a shiver of excitement is immediately attractive to him. Plus, Libra is an air sign, which means he's a super social extrovert. Making eye contact without hesitation tells him that you're outgoing and you're ready to communicate.^{[1]
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- Gemini is also an air sign, and air signs are magnetically drawn to one another. You’ll both feel the chemistry immediately when you look at each other.

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Be friendly and upbeat.

This sign is drawn to positive energy. Libras are glass half-full types, so that’s the lens through which they see the world. Luckily, as a Gemini, you have plenty of optimism and good vibes to match. Positivity will absolutely radiate around the two of you whenever you’re together—you'll both feel it and everyone in the room will notice it, too.
- If your Libra is happily chatting back to you and matching your upbeat energy, he’s digging you. This sign isn't great at polite small talk, so if he isn’t feeling it, he’ll act cold and distant.^{[2]
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Compliment him.

Since Libras struggle with confidence, he’ll appreciate the ego boost. Despite his flawless style, good looks, and positive attitude, deep down your Libra is a bit insecure. This sign is represented by double sided scales, which explains his dual nature—self-assured on the outside, tense on the inside. Compliments are an easy way to boost his confidence and make him feel great.
- You can compliment his looks, but Libras worry more about their skills and talents (they’re incorrigible perfectionists). Focus your compliments there for the most impact.
- Wait for an opportunity to swoop in with a genuine compliment so it feels really natural. Geminis are lightning-fast thinkers, so this will be easy for you.^{[3]
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- You might say, "I had no idea you were a pianist! The piece you just played was incredible. You have a real gift."

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Bring up intellectual topics.

Libras love intelligent conversation and crave mental connection. As Astrologer Angel Eyedealism emphasizes, a Libra man "wants a woman who is refined and intellectual." As a fellow air sign, you understand this better than any other zodiac sign.^{[4]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Chatting about all manner of interesting things comes easily to both of you, so just talk about your current fascinations and passions. He’ll jump in with his thoughts and you’ll find yourselves talking late into the night.
- Libras prefer to discuss lofty topics like philosophy, art, literature, and science.
- The Gemini/Libra bond is built on a mutual love of communication and mental stimulation. It's the reason why you're one of the best zodiac matches.
- Libras hate gossip, so avoid that at all costs. They also dislike vulgar language and crude humor, so keep it clean.^{[5]
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Be spontaneous.

This sign gets bored with routine, so try to be flexible. Libras love spontaneity, so it’s only a matter of time before your guy springs a random idea on you to see what you'll do. Make sure he knows that you’re down for whatever at the drop of a hat. He’ll be very attracted to your willingness to change things up whenever the mood strikes him.
- Both of you tend to be indecisive, so you may need to focus on making decisions like where to go and what to do. Otherwise, you both might end up floating around aimlessly all day (of course, that can be fun, too!)

6

Hit the town with him.

Your guy is a social butterfly who lives for beauty, art, and culture. Air signs are extremely social, so this is another area where you and your Libra are perfectly matched. Since Venus-ruled Libras are obsessed with the finer things in life, your guy prefers urban settings where he can soak up culture. Live music, art exhibits, and indie films are some of his favorite activities.^{[6]
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- Invite him to attend a foreign film festival with you
- Buy tickets and take him to see his favorite band
- Take him to an art gallery opening or museum exhibit

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Hang out with his friends.

A Libra’s immediate social circle is really important to them. Your guy probably spends a lot of time with his friend group, so be open to meeting them. When you're hanging out with his friends, just be yourself and do your best to mesh with their energy. Seeing you bonding with his besties will definitely warm a Libra’s heart.
- This will be easy for a fun-loving Gemini! You’ll win them over in no time with your charm and wit.

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Plan exciting date activities.

Libras are always looking for their next adventure. Libras are thrill-seekers who thrive on excitement and adrenaline. If you really want to impress this guy, invite him to do something fun that'll get your hearts pounding. As a Libra, he’ll be intrigued immediately and agree without hesitation. You might:
- Ask him to spend the day riding roller coasters at an amusement park
- Sign the two of you up for sky-diving or bungee lessons
- If he’s outdoorsy, invite him to hike a challenging trail nearby

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Dress in stylish outfits.

Libras appreciate great style since they’re ruled by Venus.^{[7]
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Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Venus is the planet of beauty and appearances, so this sign is drawn to tasteful dressers with great style. As a Gemini, you love pairing timeless classics with bold statement pieces—this is a great style combo to get a Libra’s attention. Turning up in your best fit is a great way to get his attention.
- Libras have an eye for detail, so pick eye-catching accessories like a chunky necklace, patterned scarf, or colorful shoes.
- Since this guy wants someone who looks good on his arm, pay attention to his personal style and choose outfits that compliment his vibe.^{[8]
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Flaunt your confidence.

This sign is drawn to people who sparkle in the limelight. Libra is symbolized by double-sided scales, so these folks are always seeking to balance their energy with their partner’s energy.^{[9]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Since deep down Libras tend to struggle with confidence, your guy will love that an extroverted Gemini can come along and supply confidence in spades.
- For example, wear something eye-catching to an event. When all eyes are on you, remember to smile and stand up straight so you exude confidence.
- Embrace your quirky qualities to help a Libra come out of his shell. For example, crack his friends up with your silliest celebrity impressions.

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Be patient with him.

Libras need time before moving forward in a serious relationship. Luckily, as a Gemini, you understand this perfectly because you’re the exact same way. You both flit around easily enough when it comes to casual relationships, but serious relationships are a different story. You both want time and space to really feel it out before you make it official.