So a Libra man's charmed you—that's not surprising! Libras are great listeners, observers, and conversationalists. If you're seeing a Libra and want to make him obsess over you, we're here to help. You're probably wondering how to get inside his head, so you can understand him better. We'll help you figure out his friendly personality and come up with date suggestions that he'll love.

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Pay him genuine compliments.

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Have deep conversations with him.

  1. Libras are fantastic communicators and they value connection. While Libras enjoy the beautiful things in life, they want more than just nice small talk. Your man will want to develop a meaningful relationship with you, so conversation is really important.[4] Go on dates that allow you both to talk about everything that's important to you—hopes, goals, politics, careers, travel—you name it.[5]
    • For instance, go to an intimate wine bar where you can spend hours talking about anything that pops into your mind or you could attend an interesting lecture together and discuss it afterward.
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Show him that you’re calm and grounded.

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Be the one that plans dates.

  1. Libras are known for being indecisive, so he’ll love it if you make plans. It's typical for Libra to have a hard time making choices, especially when it comes to dates. He might second-guess himself on where to go, when to meet, etc. He'll love it if you take the lead and figure out the date.
    • If you don't want all of the responsibility of planning every date, take turns! This can be a fun way to take pressure off of both of you.
    • Need some great date ideas for your Libra? Take him to a pottery class, go to a local lecture and grab drinks afterward, bring him to a friend's party, or explore a local trail. All of these appeal to his social, intellectual, artistic, and active traits.
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Look your best.

  1. Your Libra guy is attracted to someone who’s polished and put together. Since Libra is ruled by Venus, the planet that rules beauty, your guy cares a lot about aesthetics. Make an effort to look nice, but don't feel like you have to be the showiest person in the room. If it looks like you put thought into choosing your outfit and you're wearing clothes that highlight your assets, he'll notice![6]
    • For instance, you might wear a chic black dress or slacks and a nice button-down shirt. To catch his eye, pair the outfit with a bold accessory like a fun cocktail ring or a bright necklace.
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Take things slow.

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Shower him with romantic gestures.

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Give him some space.

  1. A Libra man values personal time alone. He probably gets worn out trying to be diplomatic all the time! Plus, it's totally normal and healthy to enjoy doing things apart from each other. Make time for yourself and your own set of friends. When you do meet up again, you'll enjoy hearing all about what each other was up to.[8]
    • Instead of texting constantly throughout the day, you two might agree to hang out in the evening instead, or you might call him every few days instead of a few times a day.
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References

  1. https://www.zodiacguides.com/how-to-seduce-a-libra-man/
  2. Jessica Lanyadoo. Astrologer & Psychic Medium. Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.
  3. https://youtu.be/yMAqcnhK_xA?t=424
  4. Jessica Lanyadoo. Astrologer & Psychic Medium. Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.
  5. https://popularastrology.com/get-libra-man-to-chase-you
  6. https://youtu.be/5Em6UGpfPog?t=43
  7. Jessica Lanyadoo. Astrologer & Psychic Medium. Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.
  8. https://www.vogue.co.uk/miss-vogue/article/libra-love-relationships-compatability

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This article was co-authored by Jessica Lanyadoo and by wikiHow staff writer, Jessica Gibson. Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal. This article has been viewed 12,567 times.
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