The dick pic—sometimes disappointing, mostly unwanted, and truly difficult to escape. If one of these creatures of the Internet Age has crept into your messages or DMs, you might be wondering how to respond. This comes down to whether or not you wanted these pics in the first place—in other words, whether they’re solicited or unsolicited. We’ll walk you through both situations and suggest some perfect responses, starting with unwanted dick pics before moving on to ones that pique your interest.

1

Block their number.

  1. You don’t have to tolerate unwanted dick pics. Sending dick pics without the other person’s consent is a form of sexual harassment, and it’s perfectly acceptable to do whatever it takes to protect yourself from harassment. Block their number or profile, with or without a note letting them know you’re going to do it, and don’t look back.[1]
    • Some senders of unsolicited dick pics might like getting blocked by you, since they’re just looking to provoke a reaction. You can also choose to mute them or hide their messages so that they don’t get a notification.
    • If you’re getting dick pics over social media, you can also report the sender for harassment.
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Send an ambiguous emoji.

  1. A weird emoji is a good way to confuse them. Since getting an unsolicited dick pic is confusing, why not return the favor? You’ll have them trying to decipher your meaning, which gives you the upper hand in the interaction. Try one of these, or pick any other that catches your eye:[2]
    • 😇: Are you too good for this interaction? Or too good for them? Let them figure it out!
    • 👋: Is it a hello, or a goodbye? Who’s to say? Let them decide while you sit back.
    • 💩: A classic emoji that makes absolutely no sense as a response to a dick pic. They’ll be puzzled over this one.
    • You can also opt to send over a favorite meme—dig through your camera roll and see if you can find one that fits the situation.
7

Ask them to explain themselves.

  1. You have a right to confront them about their actions. No one should be sending dick pics without consent—in other words, without the person on the receiving end saying they want them. Asking them to justify their actions might stop them from doing this to other people in the future, and also can help you keep your relationship on the right track if you’re interested in this person. Message them something like:[3]
    • “Why would you send me this?”
    • “I’m confused about why you would think this was a good idea.”
    • “This isn’t appropriate for our relationship at all. Care to explain yourself?”
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Respond with a nude of your own if you feel comfortable.

  1. You don’t have to respond to a nude with a nude, but you can. Although some people might pressure you into sending them nudes just because they sent you some, you don’t need to do anything you’re not comfortable with. But if you do want to send some sexy pics, this is another completely valid way to respond. Have fun with it![4]
    • Only send nudes if you feel comfortable with doing it and if you’re over the age of 18. Distributing child pornography is illegal, so for your own safety, don’t do this until you’re no longer a minor.
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About This Article

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This article was co-authored by John Keegan. John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health. This article has been viewed 109,973 times.
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How you respond to a dick pic depends on whether or not you wanted these pics in the first place. If the photo is wanted, or the sender is a significant other, you can give them a compliment like “Looking good.” or respond with a positive emoji like the heart-eyes emoji. If you're feeling comfortable, you can even respond with a nude photo of your own. If the dick pic comes as a surprise, ask them to explain themselves and say something like “Why would you send me this?” If you aren't quite sure how to reply, you can leave them on read, or send back an ambiguous emoji like the waving hand emoji. If the photo is unwanted, try responding with something snarky like “You should get a doctor to check that out.” or say “I’ve seen better." to let them know you aren't impressed. Remember, you don’t have to tolerate unwanted dick pics. If you're receiving unsolicited photos, you can mute or block the sender, or report them for harassment.

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