Texting a girl is a great way to get to know her and learn more about her. Thinking of what to say and making sure your conversation is interesting can be tough, though, especially if you tend to overthink things. We’ve compiled a list of ways you can keep your text convo interesting and never run out of things to say.

1

Give her a compliment.

  1. It will make her feel good about herself. Plus, you can tell her how cool she is so she gets the message that you like her. If your conversation is getting a little boring, flatter her with something about her personality. Stay away from anything about her looks, since that might make her uncomfortable. Try things like:[1]
    • “I love talking to you. You always know how to make me laugh!”
    • “You have the best taste out of anyone I know. Could you help me pick a birthday gift for my sister?”
    • “I can’t believe you got the best grade in our class. You’re so smart!”
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3

Follow up on something she told you about.

Expert Q&A

  • Question
    How do I text my crush?
    Imad Jbara
    Imad Jbara
    Dating Coach
    Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
    Imad Jbara
    Dating Coach
    Expert Answer
    Try to be illogical and fun! Instead of leaning on the classic "fine" and "okay" answers to the "how are you" question, try replying with something more funny and creative. You might say, "You know, the usual. Saved a group of kids from a burning building and helped the old lady across the street. How about you?"
  • Question
    What should we talk about over text?
    Imad Jbara
    Imad Jbara
    Dating Coach
    Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
    Imad Jbara
    Dating Coach
    Expert Answer
    Keep things simple! Ultimately, you want your texts to lead to something more personal, like a date or phone call, so you don't want to share too much over text in the beginning. Plus, texting can lead to miscommunication if you both don't know each other well, so it's better to play it safe.
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This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth. This article has been viewed 501,051 times.
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