How to Respond to a Compliment on Tinder

Co-authored by Lauren Sanders

Last Updated: May 30, 2022 References

If you just got a compliment on Tinder, you're probably busy brainstorming all the different ways you can respond. There are hundreds of different ways to reply, and the perfect response has a lot to do with how you really feel about the compliment. This article has a list of ways you can respond to praise on the popular dating app, ranging from flirty replies to messages that show off your wit and sense of humor.

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"Aw thank you!”

This is a simple, sweet response to use if you're genuinely flattered. Getting a nice compliment from a cutie on Tinder can feel great. Let that person know that you're happy to hear such positive praise by thanking them.^{[1]
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- You might consider adding an emoji, like ❤️ or 🥰, to make your response a little flirtier.

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"Thanks, I appreciate that!”

Show your genuine appreciation for such a kind message. It takes a lot of guts to give someone a compliment, and this person likely really wants to hear that their praise was well-received. Let them know that you're grateful to have gotten such a nice message.^{[2]
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- This response also may work if you appreciate the compliment, but aren't sure you feel the same way.

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"Thanks, that’s so sweet of you to say.”

Let them know how nice they were to offer you a compliment. This person took time out of their day to praise you! Thank them and praise them for their kindness in return if you really value what they said.^{[3]
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- You can also try, "Thanks, what a nice thing to say!" or "Wow, you're so kind."

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"You just made my day.”

If you're really pleased by the compliment, let them know. Tell them directly how happy their message really made you. The person who complimented you will likely be super happy to hear that their message really worked.
- You can also message back something like, "My day just got a whole lot better" or "This just completely turned my day around. Thank you!"

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"You’re gonna make me blush.”

If you want to be flirty, opt for this cute, subtle response. If you got a particularly flirty compliment (and you really liked that), you might say something to hint at how the comment made you feel. The person who complimented you will probably be pretty happy that their compliment was so well-received.
- Add a blushing smiley face, like 😊, for the full effect.

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"I think you’re pretty great as well.”

Give them a compliment right back if you like them. Though you totally don't have to respond to a compliment with one in return, it can be a great option if you really mean it. Let this person know that the feeling is mutual to get the ball rolling (it might be just the encouragement they need to ask you out).^{[4]
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- You might try complimenting something a little more specific about them. Try, "Thanks, I think you're super funny, too!" or "You've got a great smile as well."

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"You’re really cute, too.”

Tell them you're attracted to them if you're really feeling it. If they complimented your looks and you also find them really cute, go ahead and let them know. The person who messaged you will likely be happy to hear it, and it'll establish that you both are pretty into each other.
- You can also try, "I was gonna say the same thing about you!" or "You're pretty hot yourself."

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"You’re not so bad yourself.”

Opt for this casual response if you want to flirt a little more subtly. You might like this person, but not be head over heels just yet. Try this laid-back approach to complimenting them in return if you're not ready to lay all your cards out on the table just yet.^{[5]
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"Why, thank you! Anything else you like about me?”

Try out this response if you want to show off your confidence. People often really enjoy talking to someone who knows their worth. Ask for more compliments if you want to come off as bold, funny, and self-assured.
- You might also try, "Thanks! Keep those compliments coming.”

10

"You have excellent taste 😉”

Flaunt your high self-esteem with this flirty response. Another way to show off how much you value yourself is by praising this person's interest in you. Throw in an emoji to make your message come off as more playful and flirtatious.

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"Is that the best you can do?"

Playfully challenge the person to compliment you again. This message helps you come off as flirty and self-assured, two qualities many Tinder matches will be into. You might add a flirtatious emoji, like 😏, to make sure the person you're messaging with knows that you're just fooling around.^{[6]
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- You might also try, "I know you can do better than that 😈"

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"Someone finally agrees with my parents!"

A lighthearted response like this can show off your sense of humor. If you like joking around with your matches, respond to their compliment with something funny. They'll likely appreciate your wit and respond with a joke of their own, and it'll help you determine if your senses of humor are compatible.^{[7]
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- You can also message, "My parents always said the same thing..."
- If the person you're messaging with doesn't get the joke, follow up with something like, "JK" or "Just kidding. Thanks so much!"

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"I know."

Try this option to see if your Tinder match can handle your confidence. A matter-of-fact response like this can weed out matches that might be put off by your high self-esteem.^{[8]
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- You might also try, "I've heard that one before..."

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"Thanks. How was your day?"

Change the subject if you're not a big fan of the compliment. Maybe this person said something a little strange, but you want to give them another chance. Try thanking them briefly and asking them a question so the conversation goes in another direction.
- You can also message something like, "Thank you. What are you up to this week?" or "Much appreciated! What's new with you?"
- If they continue you message you weird or uncomfortable comments, it may be time to unmatch them.

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"Do you think you could rephrase that in a way that’s more respectful?”

If the compliment made you uncomfortable, you can make this request. This person may have made you feel objectified or disrespected, and if that's the case, you totally don't have to take the compliment. You always have the option to ignore or unmatch them, but if you want to give them a chance to learn and do better next time, opt for this response.^{[9]
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- You might also reply, "That kind of language makes me uncomfortable. Could you please reword your message?"

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"I don’t appreciate being spoken to like that.”

Let them know directly if you don't appreciate what they said. You have every right to stick up for yourself if the "compliment" was really not okay with you. You might consider unmatching them if the message was particularly disrespectful, but sending a response like this can help you feel more in control of the situation.^{[10]
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- You can also try, "I can only keep messaging if you treat me with respect. I don't like to be referred to in that way."
- If you're looking to deflect, you can change the subject. That said, you can absolutely be honest and say you didn't like what the guy said.

Expert Q&A

Question

How do you respond to a compliment from a guy you don't like?

Lauren Sanders
Matchmaker & Dating Coach
Lauren Sanders is a Professional Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder of Dating for the Soul. With over four years of experience, she specializes in helping singles find love. Lauren is also the author of Lipstick Faith: A Collection of Inspirational Writings and Life Lessons, You Deserve the World, Rainbows and Strawberries: 100 Devotions for the Brighter Side of Life, and Let's Go Outside Mommy. Lauren holds BS from Dillard University and a Masters from The University of North Georgia.

Lauren Sanders

Matchmaker & Dating Coach

Expert Answer

Say thank you and move on. It's that simple. If they attempt to show more interest and stay in contact, be honest with them and let them know you appreciate the compliment, but are not interested.