This article was co-authored by Vernita Marsh, PhD and by wikiHow staff writer, Kai Hynes. Dr. Vernita Marsh is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the CEO and Founder of Dr. Vernita Marsh & Associates and The Marsh Clinics®. With over 30 years of clinical psychology experience, she specializes in relationship therapy, grief counseling, family therapy, and intimate partner abuse counseling. Dr. Marsh offers consultation for therapists, coaches, and trainees of mental health. Dr. Marsh earned her PhD in Clinical Psychology from Michigan State University and completed both her postdoctoral and fellowship training at Harvard Medical School. She also has expertise in the area of Telehealth and has received Clinical Telehealth Health Provider Certification from Evergreen.
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Getting over the hurt of being the “other woman” takes some time. Like any form of heartbreak, dealing with it takes a lot of self-reflection and personal emotional work, but it also requires support from the people who love and support you. You’re not alone in this. Trust us. For tips on how to start healing from the heartbreak of being the other woman and what to do next, read on.
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QuestionWhat does it feel like being the other woman?Vernita Marsh, PhDDr. Vernita Marsh is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the CEO and Founder of Dr. Vernita Marsh & Associates and The Marsh Clinics®. With over 30 years of clinical psychology experience, she specializes in relationship therapy, grief counseling, family therapy, and intimate partner abuse counseling. Dr. Marsh offers consultation for therapists, coaches, and trainees of mental health. Dr. Marsh earned her PhD in Clinical Psychology from Michigan State University and completed both her postdoctoral and fellowship training at Harvard Medical School. She also has expertise in the area of Telehealth and has received Clinical Telehealth Health Provider Certification from Evergreen.
Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Consultant, & SpeakerBeing the other woman is a really emotional experience. You might feel angry as well as insecure, and wonder if you weren't good enough for your cheating partner.
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- ↑ https://thefrisky.com/how-to-be-the-other-woman/
- ↑ Vernita Marsh, PhD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Consultant, & Speaker. Expert Interview. 7 April 2022.
- ↑ https://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/relationships/a52659/the-other-woman-deserves-sympathy-too/
- ↑ Vernita Marsh, PhD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Consultant, & Speaker. Expert Interview. 7 April 2022.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/201409/5-ways-know-youre-confiding-in-the-right-person
- ↑ https://thefrisky.com/how-to-be-the-other-woman/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/between-the-sheets/201809/how-the-other-woman-or-man-fares-after-affair
- ↑ Vernita Marsh, PhD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Consultant, & Speaker. Expert Interview. 7 April 2022.
- ↑ https://mashable.com/article/the-other-woman-experiences
- ↑ https://womenforone.com/on-shame-guilt-and-letting-go-7-lessons-i-learned-being-the-other-woman/
- ↑ https://www.glamour.com/story/how-to-get-over-a-broken-heart
- ↑ Vernita Marsh, PhD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Consultant, & Speaker. Expert Interview. 7 April 2022.