Some Sims were just born for a life of short-term romances. It's easy to achieve their goal of being the boyfriend/girlfriend of 10 different sims though. Let me show you how.

Steps

  1. 1
    OPTIONAL: Turn the cheats on. When you first start up The Sims 3, you get to the menu. If you're already in a town, please get back to the main menu. Now, before you go on, press Ctrl+Shift+C on your keyboard. Type "testingcheatsenabled true" without the quotation marks in the box that appears. Now you can enter your town of choice.
  2. 2
    Create your Sim. If you already made the Sim you want to use, just skip this step. Here are some suggested traits:
    • Flirty
    • Inappropriate
    • Great Kisser
    • Commitment Issues
    • Mean Spirited
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  3. 3
    Get your Sim ready. Now that you have your Sim, you have two options; move them into a pre-made house, or buy a lot and build them a house. Pick one.
  4. 4
    Meet people. Now that your Sim is totally ready, it's time to meet some people. If you want to do this the old fashioned way, go right ahead! However, there is a much easier way to meet people; you don't even have to leave the comfort of your home! (This will only work if the cheats are on.) Shift+Click on your mailbox. Click on "Make Me Know Everyone". Now go to your relationships tab. You should know everyone. Wasn't that EASY? Although, you should see the warnings.
  5. 5
    Befriend people. Again, you can go out and actually TALK to people, but the other way is easier. (With the cheats on) CTRL+Click on the bar underneath your relationship with people in the relationships tab. Now, while keeping the CTRL and mouse button down, drag your cursor to the right. Your relationship should go up. Further to the right, better the friend. Repeat 10 times.
  6. 6
    Invite over a friend (in The Sims 3, not real life). There's a chance that they could be in work at the time you call them, in which case you just invite over another friend, and/or wait until they're done with work.
  7. 7
    Make them your girlfriend/boyfriend. If you're inappropriate, you can kiss them right away, helping your romantic relationship with a huge jump. If not, work your way up to that point by complimenting and flirting. After the first kiss, complimenting, flirting and massaging are all great ideas. Once an option pops up under the Romantic choices that says Propose Going Steady, select this. If they like you enough, they'll say yes.
  8. 8
    Break up with them. It's time to be Mean! Under the mean options for interaction, it'll say, Break Up. Click. Repeat ten times with your other friends.
  9. 9
    You'll be so swamped with Lifetime Happiness Points, you won't know what to do!
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Community Q&A

  • Question
    Is it okay to try for a baby with one of my victims?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    Yes, it's totally fine. You can have babies with all of them if you'd like. Just break up with them after and then you will still get their tally on your lifetime wish.
  • Question
    The rallies don't stay for me. What should I do?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    This happened to me too. Just do the same, but propose to them as well and that should work.
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Warnings

  • (From Step 3) If you use the "Make Me Know Everyone" cheat, it might slow down your loading time of the relationships tab, and it makes it more difficult to find the people you're interested in knowing; it makes you search through random people you don't care about to find the people you're interested in dating at some point.
    • Your Sim might decide they want to settle down with one of your poor victims. This is strongly discouraged. If you decide that they, in fact, are the one, finish your Sim's Lifetime Wish and come back to them later.
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Things You'll Need

  • The Sims 3

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