How to Seduce an Aries Man As a Pisces Woman

Co-authored by Stina Garbis and Madeleine Criglow

Last Updated: July 25, 2022 References

Ever heard the phrase opposites attract? That couldn't be more true for the sensual and strong connection between an Aries man and a Pisces woman. Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac and Pisces is the last, making for a particularly dynamic pair that is always learning from each other.^{[1]
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Research source} To seduce an Aries man as a Pisces woman, embrace your mysterious, elusive nature and show him that you can be wild and spontaneous, too. Read on to learn how you can do just that.

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Embrace your mysterious qualities to intrigue him.

An Aries man likes to be left wanting more. Make yourself a little hard to reach by filling up your schedule and revealing details about yourself at an incremental pace. You might even consider ending your text conversations first sometimes to really leave him longing for you. Nothing gets an Aries hot like the thrill of the chase, so he'll love having to fight for your attention.^{[2]
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- If he asks you out on short notice (as a spontaneous Aries likely will), you might say, "I've actually got plans today, but I'm free later this week 😊 "
- If you've been texting back and forth, end your conversation on a high note and use your exit to emphasize the cool things you've got going on in your life.
- You might text him, "It's been so fun to catch up, but I've got to head out. Going to a concert with friends tonight! 🎸"

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Give him a ton of compliments.

Aries men love to be flattered. Tell him how great he is to appeal to his nature.As a Pisces, you have a unique talent for showing admiration for what makes people special. Take advantage of that by giving him plenty of genuine compliments that are unique to him. He'll love the praise and will be drawn to get closer to such a friendly, flirty person like yourself.^{[3]
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- Aries men are known for their uncompromising ambition. If your Aries guy shares that quality, you might say, "You're so talented. I love hearing about all of the projects you've got going on."
- An Aries won't shy away from a compliment regarding his physical appearance (he'll love it). For a flirtier approach, text him something like, "That picture you posted was really something. You're pretty handsome 😉."

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Flirt with him a whole lot.

Aries men love to flirt with wordplay, humor, and physical touch. Though it might take a bit to open up sometimes as a Pisces, know that your Aries crush will likely fall for you if you go for it. Be flirty over text and in person and he'll be utterly transfixed by you.^{[4]
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- You might playfully tease him to get a rapport going. Say something like, "Stayed up way too late watching that show you recommended. If I'm late to work today, I blame you!"
- You might send him a funny GIF from a TV show that he likes or a meme that makes you think of him. Add a flirty caption like, "This reminded me of someone. Any guesses? 😉"
- If you're comfortable, get a little physical. Try touching his shoulder to say goodbye or giving him a hug. When you're on a date, you might try holding his hand or even giving him a kiss.

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Wear feminine and sexy clothes if that's your style.

Aries men often like these types of styles (especially in the color red). Try more traditionally feminine styles, like skirts, dresses, and form-fitting jeans. Aries is associated with the color red, so he'll be super into it if you add some red lipstick or a bold red coat to your ensemble.^{[5]
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- When you spend time with your Aries crush, you might wear a breezy sundress or a cute miniskirt. Alternatively, go for some sexy cut-off jeans and a nice blouse or sweater.
- Spritz on some perfume before you head out the door to really seduce him. You might try a perfume with hints of lily, rain, or iris, which will appeal to your senses the most. Pisces is a water sign, after all.^{[6]
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Go on wild and adventurous dates.

Get out of your comfort zone and try being a little impulsive. An Aries gets bored easily, so they're always chasing after the next thrill. Plan dates that feel like adventures in themselves and he'll be seduced by your tantalizing way of life.^{[7]
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- Aries men love an adrenaline rush. Try competitive pursuits together, like playing sports or video games. Be sure to cheer him on as you play! Or, go for creative outlets, such as an improv class or karaoke.
- Dream up exciting, activity-based dates. You might try going on a hike that you've both never done before, try tennis, shooting hoops, or rollerblading, or even taking a day trip out of town (Aries men love to travel).

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Stimulate his mind with passionate conversations.

Talking (or even debating) is pretty effective foreplay for an Aries. He'll be open to any subject as long as you match his confidence and stand your ground.^{[8]
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Research source} Bring up things like philosophy, politics, and art, and don't be afraid to disagree. Your Aries crush will be super enticed by your unique, empathetic perspective as a Pisces woman, and you'll likely open his mind to a whole new world of ideas.
- Check out an art museum with your Aries man to help you out with conversation topics. Point out a painting you like and share your unique interpretation of its meaning.
- You might say, "I like that the waterfall and the sky seem to flow together. I feel like it represents the fluidity of the universe. What do you think?"
- You might also try sending him an interesting poem or some profound political theory with the caption, "This made me think a lot. I feel like you'd be into it, too!"

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Explore your sexual fantasies together.

An Aries man will be into anything a little wild. Aries and Pisces are capable of having truly amazing sexual chemistry, but only if you pay attention to each others' needs. Talk about what you like and see what he likes, too. If you're feeling adventurous, explore different roles that the two of you can play in the bedroom and experiment. You might have to put yourself out there a little bit, but talking about your fantasies openly will be a huge turn-on for your Aries crush.^{[9]
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- Try kissing your Aries man on the top of his head or his eyelids. An Aries man is ultimately ruled by his mind, so any stimulation nearby will drive him wild.
- If you're comfortable, go for more unexpected positions and even locations. An Aries likes to bring their sense of adventure to the bedroom, and your deep, imaginative outlook on sexuality as a Pisces is a perfect match for this.

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Be super confident.

An Aries man loves a woman who believes in herself. As a Pisces woman, you might struggle with second-guessing yourself sometimes. Try your best to own everything that makes you special and flaunt it when you're around him. Your ever-so-confident Aries crush will find that very sexy.^{[10]
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- Adopt confident body language when you're around your Aries man. Stand up with your shoulders back and your head held high. Make eye contact when you see him and even give him a welcoming smile.
- Speak highly of your accomplishments. You might mention that you recently won an award or landed a solid new job. He'll find your success enticing.
- Anytime you find your confidence wavering, remember everything you like about yourself. You might think to yourself, "I'm talented, pretty, and one-of-a-kind. I'm a total catch!"

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Show him your vulnerable side.

An Aries will be super drawn to your sensitive nature. As a Pisces, you're likely no stranger to feeling deep emotions. Share what's on your mind with your Aries man and don't be afraid to express how you really feel. An Aries man will want to get closer to you if he sees that you're comfortable around him, and it'll help deepen your connection (emotionally and sexually).^{[11]
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- If you had a bad day, avoid simply saying your day was fine. You might say, "It was okay. I'm feeling a little overwhelmed this week to be honest!"
- Your honesty will make your Aries crush feel more comfortable around you.

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Ask him for help to appeal to his protective nature.

Aries men are often a little old-fashioned when it comes to romance. To really entice him, give him a chance to help you with something. Ask him for advice or assistance with something that's going on in your life. He'll love the chance to flaunt his talent and expertise, and he'll be really into the fact that you want his advice.
- Maybe you're having trouble coming up with ideas for a new project. You might say, "I'm really lacking inspiration lately. Do you have any advice on getting back into your art?"
- Perhaps you've been dealing with rude customers at work. Be a little funny and ask, "Do you have any good comebacks for tough customers?" An Aries will probably have plenty.

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Show him compassion and support.

Embrace your nurturing, empathetic instincts as a Pisces. An Aries secretly wants someone to take care of him a little bit. That makes people born with their sun in Pisces a super amazing match.^{[12]
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Research source} Talk up his accomplishments when he's feeling down and encourage him to keep following his dreams. He'll love the fact that you believe in him, and he'll find your compassion strangely seductive.
- If he's feeling stressed about all the different projects that he's got going on right now, you might say, "If anyone can do it, you can. You're a master at this stuff 😊"
- Your calming perspective as a water sign will help tone down the Aries man's stormy mood swings as a fire sign. Next time he gets heated about his bad day, you might simply tell him it's all going to be okay. It'll melt his heart.

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Respect his need for space and freedom.

Avoid getting jealous or territorial. Thankfully, your trusting nature as a Pisces makes this pretty easy. Show him you understand his needs by giving him plenty of room to hang out with his friends and do his own thing. You might also hold off on asking for an exclusive arrangement too soon (an Aries man might need a few months before he commits). He'll love the fact that you aren't threatened by his independence, and it'll only make you more appealing.^{[13]
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- Be understanding if he can't hang out because he's got plans with his friends (or even just wants to go see a movie by himself). Text him, "I totally understand! Enjoy the movie 😊"
- When he's busy, do your own thing, too. Keep hanging out with your friends and family or even go on some solo adventures of your own. He'll be super attracted to a woman who lives a similarly independent lifestyle.

Expert Q&A

Question

How can I tell if an Aries man likes me?

Stina Garbis
Psychic Astrologer
Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

Stina Garbis

Psychic Astrologer

Expert Answer

Aries have a natural courageousness to tell you how they feel. They can not hold things back or keep things secret for very long. If an Aries likes you, they will find ways to tell you. If an Aries is spending time with you, that's another indicator that they are interested in you.