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Whether he’s a good friend or someone you just met, we know standing out in a crowd and getting a boy to notice you can be tough. Luckily, there are a ton of things you can do to catch his eye and keep him interested. We have a ton of tips to help you get his attention from a distance and eventually hold a conversation so you can get to know him better!
Steps
Expert Q&A
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QuestionWhy is making eye contact so important?Cristina MoraraCristina Morara is a Professional Matchmaker, Dating Coach, Relationship Expert, and the Founder of Stellar Hitch Private Matchmaking, a luxury matchmaking service based in Los Angeles that serves clients nationwide and internationally. As a former casting director, Cristina specializes in finding the perfect partner through her exclusive global network and detailed, warm approach. Cristina holds a BA in Communications and Psychology from Villanova University. Stellar Hitch has been featured in the Huffington Post, Chelsea Handler’s Netflix documentary, ABC News, the Tonight Show, Voyage LA, and the Celebrity Perspective.
Dating CoachIt communicates confidence, and it puts people at ease if you maintain positive body language and smile. It's honestly one of those little things that can make a world of difference when it comes to connecting with someone. -
QuestionHow can I get a guy to talk to me?Cristina MoraraCristina Morara is a Professional Matchmaker, Dating Coach, Relationship Expert, and the Founder of Stellar Hitch Private Matchmaking, a luxury matchmaking service based in Los Angeles that serves clients nationwide and internationally. As a former casting director, Cristina specializes in finding the perfect partner through her exclusive global network and detailed, warm approach. Cristina holds a BA in Communications and Psychology from Villanova University. Stellar Hitch has been featured in the Huffington Post, Chelsea Handler’s Netflix documentary, ABC News, the Tonight Show, Voyage LA, and the Celebrity Perspective.
Dating CoachAsk a lot of open-ended questions. Be genuine and comfortable. If you seem open to talking and you prompt him to talk about himself, he should open up a bit. Just try to keep things light at first! -
QuestionWhat's a bold way to ask a guy out?Cristina MoraraCristina Morara is a Professional Matchmaker, Dating Coach, Relationship Expert, and the Founder of Stellar Hitch Private Matchmaking, a luxury matchmaking service based in Los Angeles that serves clients nationwide and internationally. As a former casting director, Cristina specializes in finding the perfect partner through her exclusive global network and detailed, warm approach. Cristina holds a BA in Communications and Psychology from Villanova University. Stellar Hitch has been featured in the Huffington Post, Chelsea Handler’s Netflix documentary, ABC News, the Tonight Show, Voyage LA, and the Celebrity Perspective.
Dating CoachJust be super direct if you want to go this route. Say something like, "I just want to let you know, if you were to ask me out on a date, I'd say yes."
Warnings
- Just because you get a boy’s attention doesn’t necessarily mean he’s attracted to you. It may take some time to develop feelings.⧼thumbs_response⧽
- If the guy seems nervous or doesn’t respond at all, don’t get discouraged. He might not be interested, but there’s someone out there for you.⧼thumbs_response⧽
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201305/how-get-guys-or-gals-attention
- ↑ https://www.glamour.com/story/guys-confess-what-makes-a-woma
- ↑ https://www.bolde.com/how-to-get-his-attention-without-actually-asking-for-it/
- ↑ Cristina Morara. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 29 September 2020.
- ↑ https://au.reachout.com/articles/how-to-build-self-confidence
- ↑ https://www.glamour.com/gallery/8-tips-to-get-him-to-notice-you-in-10-days
- ↑ https://www.bolde.com/how-get-guy-notice-you-without-lot-effort/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201110/reading-basic-body-language-dating-and-persuasion-success
- ↑ https://www.bolde.com/how-to-get-his-attention-without-actually-asking-for-it/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/finding-new-home/201811/passions-discover-them-or-develop-them
- ↑ https://www.bolde.com/how-get-guy-notice-you-without-lot-effort/
- ↑ https://rendezvousmag.com/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy/
- ↑ https://rendezvousmag.com/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/maybe-its-just-me/201609/do-we-put-too-much-weight-shared-interests-when-dating
- ↑ https://www.glamour.com/story/dating-what-kind-of-humor-are
- ↑ Cristina Morara. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 29 September 2020.
- ↑ https://www.sweetyhigh.com/read/get-noticed-by-your-crush-social-media-090116
- ↑ https://www.bolde.com/how-get-guy-notice-you-without-lot-effort/