How to Get Your Crush to Like You in Fifth Grade (Girls)

Last Updated: March 6, 2023

Do you have a crush on a person in 5th grade and aren't sure how to get them to like you without being creepy or embarrassed? Here is just the thing for you!

Steps

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Say the casual "Hey" to get their attention. If they say "Hi" back to you, then great, you're already getting started! If they don't, then don't worry—there are some tips for you at the end.
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Play the games outside that they play. You don't have to, especially if they just walk around school, but it's a good way to lead them to second thoughts about you (good thoughts).

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Enjoy getting their attention. Say they're sitting at a different table or they're sitting in front of you. Pretend to drop something near them. If they look at you- look back for a split second and then look away.
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Work closely with them on school projects. Offer your assistance when they need help. If you don't want to do that, whenever you make eye contact, keep your eyes fixed on theirs (but don't be creepy and scary, they'll think you're crazy!), and then you'll probably both start bursting out laughing. NOTE: This might mean they're nervous, which may be a good thing, because anxiety/curiosity is one of the key terms in having a crush.^{[1]
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See if you like the things they do. Always remember to be yourself, however, otherwise they might think you're fake.
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Laugh! Don't be a giggle freak and laugh every time they talk, otherwise they might think you're a little crazy.
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Look your best around them. Remember, be yourself! And if you wear makeup, some skin-tone matching eye liner would be good, along with some eyebrow pencil and a little mascara! If your school has uniforms, wear your uniform in style. If your school doesn't have uniforms, spice it up! Not too clashing, not too chic to be honest.^{[2]
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Try to exchange phone numbers, but be casual. Here are some examples:^{[3]
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- "Hey ___, do you have a phone? If you do, what type is it?" This will make them think you just want to see what type of phone he has. Then, eventually, they'll give you their number.
- Start a nice, easy-going conversation with them and then ask, "Hey, can I have your phone number?" just ask this calmly. NOT frantically or excitedly. Then, when you get home or when you have FREE time, pretend to "accidentally" call them. If they pick up, or even if it's voice mail, say, "Hi, sorry, it's _____. I accidentally called you, sorry I didn't hang up before you answered. Didn't realize." Give a cute laugh at the end of the sentence and then hang up. This will leave them mystified and wanting more.
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Become real friends with the person. No point having a crush on them if you're not going to befriend them.
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Ask them out, if they haven't asked you already! Don't do this too early or even too late, because they might say "no" if you hadn't done it sooner because they might think you don't like them. If they say "yes" or you say "yes", don't blab it off. Tell your parent/ guardian of course but don't run your mouth off about it or your friends might tease you or them and they won't want to go out with you anymore. Here are some ways to ask them out or say "yes" to them:^{[4]
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- "Hey ______! My parents and I are going somewhere, and they wanted me to invite a good friend, so I decided to invite you. Wanna come?"
- "Hey ______! So, we've been best friends for a long time, right? I wanted to know if you wanted to [activity here]."
- "Hey ____. My parents and I want us to have a little hangout, so... do you want to come?" Or just ask them to hang out with you! Don't call it a date right away, say something like this, " Hey do you want to hang out in the park?" Or " Do you want to come see this new movie with me?" Work your way up to calling it a date, but for now just call it a hangout!

Warnings

Don't be a giggle-freak.

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Don't play the games they play if you don't like them. Remember, just be yourself!

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Make sure you don't stare at them too much or they'll get uncomfortable around you.

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Don't be too creepy!

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