This article was co-authored by Jin S. Kim, MA and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Jin Kim is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based out of Los Angeles, California. Jin specializes in working with LGBTQ individuals, people of color, and those that may have challenges related to reconciling multiple and intersectional identities. Jin received his Masters in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University Los Angeles, with a specialization in LGBT-Affirming Psychology, in 2015.
Being married to a narcissist isn’t easy, so when you’ve finally made the decision to seek a divorce, you might find yourself breathing a sigh of relief. Being prepared to divorce a narcissist can help you combat their manipulation tactics and make the proceedings go as smoothly as possible. That’s why we’ve compiled all the tips you’ll need to keep in mind to protect yourself while divorcing your spouse.
Things You Should Know
- Keep a record of all the communication between you and your spouse in case you need to use it later on.
- Hire an attorney who has experience dealing with narcissistic spouses.
- Set clear boundaries with your spouse, especially around how often you two will communicate.
- Practice self-care and lean on your support system when times get tough.
Steps
References
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