Aquarius women are known for their assertive personalities and friendly natures. Of all the zodiac signs, they appreciate friendship the most, which usually means they’re loyal and trustworthy to everyone they meet. If you were involved with an Aquarius woman and you want to get her back, you might have a little bit of work to do. Fortunately, there are a few ways you can win her heart and (hopefully) rekindle your relationship.

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Open up to her about your feelings.

  1. Talk to her honestly about what you want. Aquarius women love it when they can talk openly and freely with someone, and they’ll appreciate it when you do the same. Don’t hold anything back, and try to let her in emotionally as much as you can. It will bring you two closer and hopefully rekindle your relationship.[2]
    • Say something like, “You’re the best woman I’ve ever known. I got scared of our relationship, which is why I pushed you away, but I don’t want to do that anymore.”
    • Or, “I realized I wasn’t prioritizing time with you, and that’s not okay. I shouldn’t expect you to rearrange your schedule just to hang out with me.”
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Tell her how serious you are.

  1. Aquarius women appreciate commitment. If you really want to make your relationship work, let her know that she’s the only woman for you. Tell her that there’s no one else like her, and really assure her that she comes first for you. If you can do that, you’ll be much more likely to reconcile with her.[3]
    • This is especially important if you did something to lose her trust, like talk to other women behind her back. Since commitment is so important to Aquarius women, it can be tough to come back from a betrayal like that.
    • Say something like, “You’re the only woman for me, and I know that now. There’s no one else I’d rather be with.”
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Be her friend.

  1. Of all the signs, Aquarians value friendship the most. Don’t focus too much on getting back into a relationship with her—instead, treat her like you’d treat a really good friend. If you can show her that you’re a stand up person even when you two aren’t necessarily together, she’ll be much more likely to take you back in the future.[5]
    • You might ask her how work is going, listen to her problems, offer to help out with errands, or simply do fun activities together.
    • It also helps if you two have mutual friends. That way, you can hang out platonically in a group so she can see just how good of a friend you are.
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Show her how much you’ve grown.

  1. Make an effort to change, and show off those changes. Once you’ve realized what you did wrong, do a few solid, concrete things to work on improving yourself. Don’t be super obvious about telling her, but let her know about all the stuff you’re doing to better yourself as a human being. She’ll probably appreciate that you’re making an effort, although it’s not a guarantee that she’ll take you back afterward.[6]
    • For instance, if you had trouble opening up to her, you might go to therapy to learn how you can be more emotionally connected to other people.
    • If you didn’t have a ton of time for her, you might improve your work-life balance so you have a lot more free time throughout the week.

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Stina Garbis
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This article was co-authored by Stina Garbis and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary. This article has been viewed 28,357 times.
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