This article was co-authored by Mark Rosenfeld and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Mark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women and founded Make Him Yours in 2015. Mark specializes in helping people find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon on its release.
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If you’ve spotted someone cute on social media, you might be wondering how in the world you can send them a message without feeling weird about it. Thankfully, we've got tons of ideas of what you can say to spark a connection. Keep reading to learn how you can send an eye-catching message to (hopefully) get a quick reply.
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QuestionIs it OK to slide into DMs?Mark RosenfeldMark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women and founded Make Him Yours in 2015. Mark specializes in helping people find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon on its release.
Dating & Relationship CoachThere's nothing wrong with shooting your shot, but it's definitely not going to have a high rate of success so far as establishing a relationship goes. -
QuestionWhat should I do if she doesn't respond to my questions?Mark RosenfeldMark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women and founded Make Him Yours in 2015. Mark specializes in helping people find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon on its release.
Dating & Relationship CoachThis is a common issue. Questions are a great way to get a conversation moving, but they don't necessarily set the stage very well for a flirty conversation. You want to be the pond, not the fishing pole, if that makes sense. Try throwing out some statements. This way you build a degree of mystery and you set the stage for her to come to you with the follow-up comments.
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- ↑ https://www.society19.com/how-to-slide-into-dms-without-looking-like-a-total-creep/
- ↑ https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/03/146596/how-to-slide-into-dms-instagram-guide#slide-1
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/tips/g2366/flirty-texts/?slide=10
- ↑ https://fashionmagazine.com/wellness/how-to-slide-into-dms/
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 11 June 2021.
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a26357/corny-pick-up-lines-from-twitter/
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/tips/g2366/flirty-texts/?slide=5
- ↑ https://www.society19.com/how-to-slide-into-dms-without-looking-like-a-total-creep/
- ↑ https://www.society19.com/how-to-slide-into-dms-without-looking-like-a-total-creep/