When you’re depressed, you might be feeling lethargic, drained, or just generally unhappy. While there’s no instant cure for depression, there are a few things you can do right now to make yourself feel better and improve your mood. Try doing a few of these things every day to cope with your depression and continue on toward the road of recovery.

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Let yourself feel whatever you’re feeling.

  1. If you’re having a bad day, that’s okay. It’s fine to accept your feelings for what they are without trying to change them. If you want to let them out, talk to a friend or write them down in a journal. If you start to feel better, let yourself feel the good feelings, too.[1]
    • It’s okay to wallow in your feelings a little bit. Trying to suppress them or not to feel them is actually unhealthy, and it can worsen your mental health in the long run.[2]
    • Remember that just because you’re feeling bad today doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll feel bad tomorrow.
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Reach out to your loved ones.

  1. Your friends and family members can help you through it. You can let them know what you’ve been going through, or you can simply chat with them to distract you from your thoughts. Try to text, call, or hang out with someone at least once a day to get some social activity in.[3] [4]
    • When you’re feeling depressed, it’s natural to want to isolate yourself from others. However, this can actually make you feel worse,[5] so it’s important to fight those feelings.
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Do something you enjoy.

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Get 8 hours of sleep every night.

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Talk to a mental health professional.

  1. Depression isn’t easy to tackle on your own. If you’re struggling with your mental health, reach out to a therapist or counselor to help you cope. If you have health insurance, get a referral from your doctor for a licensed professional. If you don’t, consider a cheaper option like online counseling.[17]
    • Contrary to popular belief, you don’t always have to take medication in order to treat depression. You and your therapist can figure out what’s right for you,[18] but you may be able to make lifestyle changes and use talk therapy to improve your mental health.[19]

Expert Q&A

  • Question
    How can I start to build good habits?
    William Gardner, PsyD
    William Gardner, PsyD
    Clinical Psychologist
    William Gardner, Psy.D. is a Clinical Psychologist in private practice located in San Francisco, CA’s financial district. With over 10 years of clinical experience, Dr. Gardner provides individually tailored psychotherapy for adults using cognitive behavioral techniques, to reduce symptoms and improve overall functioning. Dr. Gardner earned his PsyD from Stanford University in 2009, specializing in evidence-based practices. He then completed a post-doc fellowship at Kaiser Permanente.
    William Gardner, PsyD
    Clinical Psychologist
    Expert Answer
    The trick is getting into a routine. For instance, if you're feeling well one day, you might take a walk. Then, in the future, you might build up a little bit more by taking a longer walk or going for a run.
  • Question
    How can I boost my mood fast?
    Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA
    Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA
    Matchmaker, The LA Life Coach
    Michelle Shahbazyan is the Founder of The LA Life Coach, a concierge life, family, and career coaching service based in Los Angeles, California. She has over 10 years of experience with life coaching, consulting, motivational speaking, and matchmaking. She has a BA in Applied Psychology and an MS in Building Construction and Technology Management from Georgia Tech University, and a MA in Psychology with an emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy from Phillips Graduate University.
    Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA
    Matchmaker, The LA Life Coach
    Expert Answer
    Try doing an activity that you enjoy for some self-care to help you feel better.
  • Question
    How can I be happier naturally?
    Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA
    Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA
    Matchmaker, The LA Life Coach
    Michelle Shahbazyan is the Founder of The LA Life Coach, a concierge life, family, and career coaching service based in Los Angeles, California. She has over 10 years of experience with life coaching, consulting, motivational speaking, and matchmaking. She has a BA in Applied Psychology and an MS in Building Construction and Technology Management from Georgia Tech University, and a MA in Psychology with an emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy from Phillips Graduate University.
    Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA
    Matchmaker, The LA Life Coach
    Expert Answer
    Reach out to people that care about you, like family and friends, to talk about how you're feeling.
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This article was co-authored by William Gardner, PsyD and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. William Gardner, Psy.D. is a Clinical Psychologist in private practice located in San Francisco, CA’s financial district. With over 10 years of clinical experience, Dr. Gardner provides individually tailored psychotherapy for adults using cognitive behavioral techniques, to reduce symptoms and improve overall functioning. Dr. Gardner earned his PsyD from Stanford University in 2009, specializing in evidence-based practices. He then completed a post-doc fellowship at Kaiser Permanente. This article has been viewed 95,153 times.
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