How to Be Successful in a Relationship with a Gemini

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Last Updated: August 30, 2021 Approved

Having a successful, enjoyable relationship is fun and rewarding. If you think you need to know how to deal with everyone born under the sign of the social Gemini in a particular way, due to their apparently unique personality traits, this article will help. To have a successful relationship of any kind with any Gemini, you will need to be willing to mix up your routine, keep your Gemini stimulated and let him or her be neurotic and unreliable without coming down too hard. Don't worry - the positive traits of a Gemini far outweigh the negative ones!

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Don't take yourself too seriously. One thing that annoys Gemini, are people who take themselves too seriously and will not enjoy at least a portion of humor.^{[1]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} All Geminis absolutely love to laugh, they enjoy being sarcastic, and they want to have a good time. So if you have a Gemini friend, indulge them in this, because if you don't, they will take offense after a while and then abruptly decide to end the relationship without warning (due to them feeling misunderstood).
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Be selfless in order to get along with Geminis who are extremely (highly) intelligent, very clever, and unbelievably resourceful. They love to share their gifts with the world and they have a strong desire to make a positive difference. Geminis want to make a lasting impression with everyone they know and come in contact with. Geminis are very loyal to their family and friends and in many cases will sacrifice a lot just to see them happy. Geminis themselves are selfless individuals and expect others to be the same way.

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Try not to argue. Geminis are masters of communication, in all respects. You can never really win an argument with a Gemini. The more you argue with a Gemini, the more you're fueling their fire to argue even more (because they love to debate for fun, it's in their nature), so really there's no point in trying to win an argument. Geminis can articulate well and validate every move they make. They also have an ability to see all sides of an argument.
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Never lie to a Gemini, because it's not a good idea. Geminis have an unusual ability to know when people are being dishonest and once they find out you're withholding information, be deceptive (they need to know) or just straight out lying it will be a very long time, until you can gain their trust back. Geminis are caring individuals, but they will not tolerate dishonesty or lying on any level.
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Respect your Geminis dignity. People born around 20 May – 21 June are all very dignified and are very respectful of all people. Yes, they enjoy having a great time, but they also have all have a very serious, professional/business-like demeanor and it should be respected. Geminis are chameleons and are able to adapt to any given situation and due to their versatility, they can accomplish more than any other zodiac sign.
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Indulge your Gemini friend with great conversations. One thing that can irritate a Gemini is a person who cannot engage them in conversation. They find those who lack conversational skills to be very mundane. Have interesting things to talk about and keep in mind, a Gemini like to listen just as much as they enjoy speaking. Geminis are very intelligent, so don't just ramble about things you don't know about, because they have a lot of knowledge about different subjects and can tell when you're being pretentious.
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Avoid being cocky or arrogant. Geminis do not like people who are arrogant and who show off, for they feel this very distasteful, unattractive, and not becoming. Geminis do not like people who are too bossy. They are all fiercely independent and will not tolerate anyone stomping on their freedom, they need their autonomy. Geminis hate having the same routine and like to change things up more often than not. Geminis are very rational and analytical. They do not appreciate people who have tunnel vision, people who only see things in black and white, and people that are not open to the viewpoints of others, because they just don't operate in that mindset and considers it to be a weakness.

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What do Geminis want in a relationship?

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Geminis like having a fun and playful relationship, so do things that help stimulate those parts of their minds.

Warnings

Life with a Gemini is never a dull moment so if you like continuity you may have chosen the wrong person unless you are willing to accept this.

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Gemini's love to be argumentative.

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Gemini and Scorpio = argue all day.

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There are 2 types of Gemini, a "high" Gemini and a "low" Gemini. Make sure you find out which you are with fast. A "low" Gemini uses his mind in all the wrong ways and will be very good at manipulating people around him. These types of Gemini are masters of deceit and as a consequence you'll never be able to trust them. A relationship without trust is one that is doomed to failure.

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