This article was co-authored by Mark Rosenfeld and by wikiHow staff writer, Dan Hickey. Mark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women and founded Make Him Yours in 2015. Mark specializes in helping people find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon on its release.
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No question describes the dating app experience better than “What in the world do I say!?” That question is especially real on Hinge, where a user can like you and say nothing or they can like you and send the first message all at once. In either case, we’ve got you covered! We’ve put together a thorough list of ways to respond to a like when it’s up to you to send the first message, and how to respond when the other person starts things off. If you’re ready to woo your matches and rake in the replies, read on!
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QuestionHow do I keep a Hinge conversation fun?Mark RosenfeldMark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women and founded Make Him Yours in 2015. Mark specializes in helping people find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon on its release.
Dating & Relationship CoachInclude more details to add some energy to your messages. For example, "I went on a ski trip to Colorado last week" can come off as a little boring. Instead, you could write, "Oh my gosh, I just came back from Colorado and had the most amazing time there. We saw the cutest little bear. And he was running around with his mom and oh my god, I was in heaven." The additional details and energy make the conversation more exciting.
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