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Do you sometimes wish that your parents would let you have a Tiktok account? Well, although they may have their reasons for that, there are ways that you can convince them that you are ready for one, and that you can be trusted.
Steps
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1Don't just download it without telling your parents. This will cause them to feel upset at you for hiding things, and that you cannot be trusted. You should always have a parent's consent before making a social media account, as they have a right to know about it.
- If you are honest to them about the fact that you have downloaded Tiktok, then they are less likely to be angry or confused at you about it. They will have more respect for you, because you had the ability to talk to them.
- If you do not tell your parents about the fact that you have got a TikTok account, and then they later find out, you could be in a lot of trouble. Depending on how strict your parents are, there can be consequences, such as taking your phone away from you. So make sure you talk to your parents about it, because chances are, they will grow to accept it.
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2Tell them that your friends are on TikTok. Telling them that you have friends on the app might make them think that if they have an account, maybe you should too.
- Make sure to tell your parents that the main reason you want to join TikTok is to have another way of interacting with your friends.
- You can also play the ultimate card by stating that your friends are the same age as you, possibly younger, and they have an account. So why shouldn't you have one?
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3Make your parents aware of the fact that you can put your account on private settings. Parents are often worried about online safety, so reassure them that only friends will be able to see your profile.
- Tell them that when you have an account on private, it means only people whom you are friends with can see your videos.
- It may so be important to say that the only way to become friends is if the two users follow each other.
- Tell them that you will not do anything to risk your safety on the site, such as accept friend requests from any random people.
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4Ask them if they would like to monitor your account every so often. This way, they can be reassured that you are staying safe online. This may sound like a terrible idea, but if you are determined not to do this, then you should probably rethink the way you are acting online. This is because if you were behaving sensibly and in the way that you promised your parents you would, you should have no issues with them going through your account. They may also be suspicious that you are hiding something from them.
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5Ask them if they have any questions, and answer them all sensibly and honestly. They may want to know more about the app, or they may just want to ask you if you think you are ready. Be open about giving your responses, as this will make them believe that you are mature enough.
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6If they say no, then ask why. Don't ask it as though you disagree with them; instead, you should simply say, "Sorry, but I'm confused as to why you said no. Could you please explain your reasons a bit clearer?"
- If it is about security reasons, then you can always reassure them that you will be as safe as you can be on there, and that you believe that you have the knowledge to keep yourself safe online.
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7If the final answer is no, then do not download the app to spite them. In the future, they may allow you, but if you go behind their backs and disobey them by downloading the app, they will believe that you are immature.
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Community Q&A
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QuestionMy parents think that I am going to post inappropriate videos, what should I do?AlexaCommunity AnswerAssure them that you will not. If they still think so, maybe you can offer to do a trial run for 1 month, and if you haven't posted any inappropriate videos, maybe they will let you have an account.
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QuestionI have just gotten my first phone, which my parents monitor. I asked for TikTok, because I love doing the dances with my friends. I can’t understand why they are saying no because I’m very responsible. Why is this?BrookeCommunity AnswerThey say no because they care for you and your safety. Social media is vast, and with cyberbullying, and trollers around, they wouldn't want you to get hurt. Let them know that you understand their opinion, and offer to make a compromise that they get to see whatever you do, and decide what you can do next. If they still don't let you download it, accept the fact, and ask them after a while again.
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QuestionWhat if your parents have a download tracker?BrookeCommunity AnswerThat's okay! Remember that you must ask your parents before downloading TikTok because they might get mad at you if you don't. As you don't want to lose their trust, don't download it behind their backs.
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Warnings
- Do not accept any requests or messages from strangers. They may not always mean well, and they may not always be who they say they are.⧼thumbs_response⧽
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