How to Be a Bombshell

Co-authored by Kalee Hewlett

Last Updated: February 17, 2023

If you want to be a bombshell, you need to look stunning from head to toe, which can take a lot of work to accomplish! Start by figuring out what kind of signature look you’d like to have: from your hair to your clothes to your makeup and nails. Then start thinking about the kind of attitude you’ll need to go along with your look. Confidence, mystery, a sense of humor, and a streak of authenticity will give you the vibe you’re looking for. Remember to take good care of yourself, and you’ll be rocking that bombshell style before you know it.

Method 1

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Doing Your Hair, Makeup, and Nails

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Do your hair every day in your signature style so you always look good. Traditionally, big, soft waves are the signature bombshell style. But depending on what kind of hair you have, you may be able to come up with something different. Whether your hair is long or short, curly or straight, or something in between, aim to find a look that is voluptuous, healthy, and stylish.^{[1]
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- If you’re going to color or highlight your hair, which can be super fun and add an entirely new look to your style, try to choose a color that will complement your skin tone.
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Take care of your hair so that it doesn’t get damaged and dry. Bombshell hair should be glossy and loose, and it should move naturally (so avoid using too much hairspray or other styling products). For healthy hair, wash and condition your locks every couple of days so that you don’t remove essential oils from your scalp. Avoid using super hot styling products on a daily basis, and give your hair some extra TLC every week with a hair treatment.^{[2]
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- Check out dry shampoo if your hair gets greasy on the days you don’t wash it.
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Make time to do your eyebrows every day so they’re always defined. For a sexy bombshell look, natural, bushy brows are in style right now. Avoid over-plucking your brows, but do take some time to pluck away stray hairs that grow outside of your brow lines. Use an eyebrow pencil or powder to fill in your brows and make them more defined. Pick a color that is close to your natural hair color, or go 1 shade darker for even more definition.^{[3]
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- If you hate doing your eyebrows every day, consider having them microbladed. Microblading is a semi-permanent tattoo that will enable you to spend much less time on your brows.
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Pick a foundation and blush that match your skin tone for a natural look. You may think that heavier makeup will make you look more beautiful, but that’s not the case. With your foundation, aim to blend it in really well so that there are no unnatural lines. Use blush to give your skin a natural-looking glow.^{[4]
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- To really define your cheekbones, try contouring your makeup.
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Apply eye makeup to define your eyes and make them pop. Wear eyeshadow every day to accentuate the natural color of your eyes and to make them appear larger. Use eyeliner to make your eyes sultrier and more dramatic (the cat eye is a great bombshell look). And don’t forget to put on 2 to 3 coats of mascara to lengthen your lashes.^{[5]
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- Try creating a smoky eye for a sexy nighttime style.
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Wear lipstick to accentuate your lips and complete your routine. Don’t be afraid to try out different colors: reds, purples, pinks, and nudes are great shades, and there are literally thousands of colors and brands to choose from. Deeper shades are great for an evening out; lighter shades are more appropriate for regular daytime use. You can even apply lip liner if you want to create more definition in your lips or if you want to perhaps make them appear a bit bigger than they really are.^{[6]
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- If you aren’t sure how to do a particular part of your makeup routine, look up a tutorial online to learn more about technique and style.
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Keep your nails looking nice so that you always look polished. In addition to grooming your nails by trimming and buffing them regularly, consider getting a manicure and pedicure every few weeks. Of course, you can paint your nails yourself at home, just make sure to use a protective topcoat so that they don’t chip easily. You can either paint them fun colors, choose a signature color that you always wear, or leave them plain, as long as they’re in good condition.^{[7]
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- If you bite your nails or pick at them, now is a great time to stop.

Method 2

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Dressing Like a Bombshell

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Choose clothes that fit you well and that accentuate your curves. Being comfortable and confident in your own skin is a huge part of the bombshell look, and a big part of that is feeling good in the clothes you wear. A classic bombshell is curvy and wears items that highlight their waist, chest, and legs. Pick items that are form-fitting but not overly-tight, and steer clear of baggy or loose clothes.^{[8]
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- If you aren’t naturally curvy, that’s okay! Look for items that create a waist, or consider getting undergarments that will help shape your body and make it appear curvier.
- Consider getting your clothes tailored if you have pieces that you love but that don’t fit you quite right.
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Wear a form-fitting dress for special evenings out. Every bombshell should have at least two or three dresses in their wardrobe that can be worn to fancy dinners or events. If you go out a lot, consider expanding your wardrobe to include multiple colors and styles of dresses. Look for dresses made out of spandex of similar materials so that the material clings to your body.^{[9]
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- A classic red or black dress is a staple of the bombshell wardrobe, so make sure you have at least one of these pieces in your closet.
- Be careful when choosing your undergarments when wearing a form-fitting dress. Pick underwear, like a thong or shapewear, that will eliminate the chance of visible underwear lines.
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Opt for high-waisted bottoms and sweetheart tops for every day wear. Whether you pick shorts and a tank top or jeans and a sweater, you’re bound to look good! Tuck your top into your pants to create a sexy, streamlined look. Consider wearing a push-up bra to give your chest some extra support and to make your top look even more alluring.^{[10]
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- You don’t have to spend a ton of money on clothes to be a bombshell. Take a look at what you already have and try to create a few good outfits from those items. Browse Pinterest and Instagram to get some outfit inspiration and see what you can recreate from what you already own.
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Add shapewear to your ensemble to make your body look curvier. A supportive bra can help lift your chest and make it more shapely, which can also make your waist look more defined. A corset or waist trainer is a great option to cinch in your waist a little bit. Similarly, Spanx and other kinds of body-shaping undergarments can help smooth out your belly and make you look great in all your outfits.^{[11]
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- When choosing shapewear, look for colors that are as close to your skin tone as possible. This will make it less likely that they’ll show underneath your clothes.
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Put on a pair of sexy high heels to elongate your legs. Whether you’re wearing a dress or jeans, high heels are an essential part of the bombshell ensemble. Look for heels that are 3 inches (7.6 cm) or taller, and have an array of colors and styles in your closet so you can mix and match with your outfits.^{[12]
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- During the cooler months, opt for boots with heels, but not at the risk of your safety in icy or snowy weather.
- If you really don’t like high heels, opt for glam flats instead.
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Finish your outfit with glamorous accessories. Jewelry, purses, clutches, watches, hats, sunglasses, and other items should all be in really good condition and should flow with the style of the rest of your outfit. For example, don’t carry a canvas tote bag in lieu of a leather purse, or something similar. Choose two or three accessories for any given outfit, like a purse, a scarf, and a nice watch. Overdoing it on the number of accessories can make you look bulky and can visually overwhelm, rather than stun.^{[13]
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- Try following the rule of opposites: if your outfit is bold, pair it with toned-down accessories. If your outfit is more neutrally-toned, pick a few accents that will pop.

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Adopting the Right Attitude

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Be confident in yourself and your body to attract others to you. People love being around others who love themselves and are confident—it’s an alluring characteristic! Stand tall with your shoulders back and your head held high, and practice good posture when you’re sitting or standing. Speak clearly and make eye contact with others, and don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself when you need to.^{[14]
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- If you don’t feel confident, “fake it until you make it”. A lot of times, just acting like you feel or believe a certain way can actually affect your brain chemistry and change the way you feel.
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Learn to be comfortable with yourself to be truly authentic. While a lot of being a bombshell is certainly about your looks and how you present yourself, there is a large component that has to do with attitude and with being a genuine person. Chances are, there are some parts of yourself that you might not like very much but that you can’t change—instead of zeroing in on and obsessing over those things, work on accepting them as part of who you are.^{[15]
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- Look into the mirror every morning and tell yourself one affirming thing about the way you look. The more you speak positively to yourself, the sooner you’ll start to believe those things.
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Try to be mysterious to create a sexy aura. Part of the bombshell persona is wrapped up in mystery and sex appeal. You could try keeping your personal life private rather than oversharing on social media and try to keep your emotions concealed so others don’t always know what you’re feeling. You could also create an air of mystery by having your own interests and not always being available for other activities.^{[16]
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- People will assume there is more to you than meets the eye, and they will want to know who you really are. Being mysterious captivates others.
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Remember to be complex and more than just your looks. A bombshell who is only focused on their looks might come across as shallow, but if you focus on your other interests and abilities, too, you’ll be the whole package. Cultivate your hobbies and interests, and don’t be afraid to try to new things to become a more well-rounded person.^{[17]
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- Just because you’re a bombshell doesn’t mean you can’t also be smart, athletic, musical, artistic, or anything else that you want to be.
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Develop a sense of humor to come across as laid-back and intelligent. If you’re too uptight and can’t make jokes or laugh at yourself, people won’t want to relate to you. Plus, being able to make a joke or a witty comment can make others feel more at ease and want to be around you more.^{[18]
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- Pay attention to what makes you laugh when you watch television or talk with friends. Observe what it is that you find funny, and try to translate that into your conversations.
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Practice being kind to show that you are beautiful inside and out. Your good looks will only get you so far if you’re mean to others or are self-centered. Speak kindly to the people you interact with on a daily basis, offer to help others when you can, and don’t be stingy with compliments. Being kind will only make your beauty shine brighter.^{[19]
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- A big part of being kind is not judging others for their choices or looks. Work on learning to accept others for who they are.

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Taking Care of Yourself

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Get enough sleep every night so you feel and look better every day. Not only will a thorough 7 to 9 hours of sleep every night help you feel more rested and ready to face your day, but it can also help with a lot of physical issues, too. Your skin will be clearer, it’ll be easier to maintain a healthy weight, and your heart will be healthier.^{[20]
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- Try going to sleep and waking up at the same time every day, even on the weekends.
- Eliminate bright screens, loud noises, and drinking caffeine in the hour before your bedtime.
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Adopt a healthy diet and drink water so your body functions well. Your diet and hydration have a big impact on your physical well-being. Everybody is different, so what you need to eat every day may differ from your best friend’s diet, but in general try to include lots of fresh fruits and veggies, lean proteins, healthy fats, and complex carbohydrates. Aim to drink at least 8 cups (1,900 mL) of water every day, if not more. The better your diet and the more water you drink, the better your skin will look, which is a huge part of being a bombshell.^{[21]
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- Remember, what you put into your body is reflected on the outside. If you take good care of yourself, you’ll look and feel better.
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Develop a skin care routine so that your skin will be healthy and glow. Try to wash your face every morning when you wake up and in the evening before bed. If you wear makeup, always take it off before you go to bed to prevent your pores from getting clogged. Look into using a toner, moisturizer, and an exfoliator, and don’t forget to wear sunscreen every day (there are some great moisturizer/sunscreen combos, or you could even use a foundation that has SPF in it). ^{[22]
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- Depending on whether or not your skin is oily, dry, or a mix of the two, you might need to tweak your routine a little to get the best results.
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Exercise 4 or 5 times a week to keep your body in good shape. Yoga and pilates are great options that will make you more flexible while toning your body at the same time. Cardio, like running or biking, are good for getting your heart rate up and working off body fat. Weight lifting is also a good option, especially if you want to tone up your muscles even more. Figure out what kinds of movements you like, and create a routine that enables you to work up a sweat most days of the week.^{[23]
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- Not only will exercise make you look better, but it’ll also help you feel better, too! Each time you get your heart rate up, your body will release endorphins, which make you feel good. You’ll find you’re able to handle day-to-day stress better, and you’ll probably sleep better, as well.
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Practice good hygiene so that you always smell good. Take a shower every day, especially if you’re working up a sweat at any point (if you don’t want to wash your hair every day, put it up in a shower cap so it doesn’t get wet). Brush your teeth at least twice a day, floss every evening, and consider using mouthwash to keep your breath smelling fresh. Remember to put on deodorant and to wear clean clothes every day.^{[24]
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- If you want, you could even start wearing a signature perfume or cologne. The better you smell, the more attractive you’ll be.

Community Q&A

Question

What are some bombshell clothes that are not revealing?

Community Answer

You can wear bodycon or fit-n-flare dresses. Maxi dresses aren't very impressive, but if they look good on you, go for it. Lace tops and tops with different types of sleeves (bell sleeve, cold shoulder, cape shoulder) would also work well.
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Can I still be a bombshell if I'm "too skinny"?

Community Answer

Of course! All women can be bombshells. If you're really worried about your weight, talk to your doctor about the healthiest way to put on a few pounds.