This article was co-authored by Michele Fields and by wikiHow staff writer, Madeleine Flamiano. Michele Fields is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Owner of Bon Jour Matchmaking based in Denver, Colorado. With over thirty years of experience, she specializes in helping others meet people and navigate dating and relationships. Michele has created over 300 marriages and has been featured on Denver ABC News, The Rocky Mountain News, Colorado 2 News, Denver Westworld, and The Denver Post.
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Want to talk to your ex-girlfriend again and find the perfect way to rebuild a strong connection? Maybe she’s the woman of your dreams, your best friend, or just a fun person to hang out with. Whatever the case is, you have a good chance to get back in touch. There are lots of texts to show you’re ready to start over with her. Read on for some ways to reach out to her and make her curious about giving your relationship another shot.
Steps
Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do you win a girl back over?Michele FieldsMichele Fields is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Owner of Bon Jour Matchmaking based in Denver, Colorado. With over thirty years of experience, she specializes in helping others meet people and navigate dating and relationships. Michele has created over 300 marriages and has been featured on Denver ABC News, The Rocky Mountain News, Colorado 2 News, Denver Westworld, and The Denver Post.
Matchmaker & Dating CoachThat depends a lot on why your relationship ended. If no one cheated and there was no abuse but you just grew apart, be a friend and keep in touch regularly. Find out about how she feels about the relationship ending, and move slowly.
References
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- ↑ Michele Fields. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 17 August 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-apes/202105/why-people-fantasize-about-former-lovers
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2783625/
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2783625/
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tech-support/201410/6-steps-repairing-your-relationship
- ↑ Michele Fields. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 17 August 2021.
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/rediscovering-love/201505/coming-home-when-old-loves-rekindle
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-relationships/202107/15-questions-help-decide-if-relationship-has-future