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Flirting with another guy involves mixing your own personal flirting style with known techniques for coming across as flirty. This article will walk you through some suggestions for finding your own style, as well as suggesting some common examples of ways to flirt between guys. It will also give you a sense of how to tell if your flirting is being received.
Steps
Method 1
Method 1 of 4:
Introduce yourself
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1Use any flirtatious manner that comes naturally to you. You like to tell a joke, announce your first name and ask them what it is, or give them a praise along with your name. Some scenarios necessitate flexibility; pay attention to the guy's mood and general manner before approaching him.
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Method 2
Method 2 of 4:
Ask some flirty questions.
Method 3
Method 3 of 4:
Try to figure out whether they're interested.
Method 4
Method 4 of 4:
Cool down if he isn't interested in you.
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1Keep in mind that some men aren't gay and are uncomfortable with flirting. If that is the case, back off and look for someone who is. If the wrong man is straight, flirting or hitting on him can be dangerous. If a gay man "hits" on them, there are a lot of men who regard it as a threat to their sexuality. Just be cautious and back off if he doesn't exhibit an almost immediate interest.
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wikiHow is a “wiki,” similar to Wikipedia, which means that many of our articles are co-written by multiple authors. To create this article, 19 people, some anonymous, worked to edit and improve it over time. This article has been viewed 102,639 times.
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Updated: June 17, 2022
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