This article was written by Judith Gottesman, MSW and by wikiHow staff writer, Hunter Rising. Judith Gottesman is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder of Soul Mates Unlimited™️ Date Coaching and Matchmaking. With more than 20 years of experience, she specializes in using psychology, attention to detail, and her intuition to create lasting matches. She is known as The West Coast Jewish Community’s Matchmaker, but her dating advice works for everyone. Her work has been featured in numerous national media outlets, such as The New York Times, NPR, and Fox News. Judith is also an author of two books, Your Soul Mate Awaits! and The Lost Art of Dating. She holds a BA in Psychology from The University of California, Berkeley and an MA in Social Work from Yeshiva University.
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Friends with benefits and casual hook-ups can be a ton of fun, but there might come a time where your feelings change. Even though there’s less stress ending a fling than a long-term relationship, you can still be respectful by carefully wording your message. We'll cover the best things to write for a polite breakup text that still gets your point across!
This article is based on an interview with our matchmaker and dating coach, Judith Gottesman, MSW, founder of Soul Mates Unlimited™️ Date Coaching and Matchmaking. Check out the full interview here.
Steps
Warnings
- Think through your decision to end things before actually sending your message so you don’t regret your choice.[12]⧼thumbs_response⧽
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/201903/when-is-it-ok-ghost-someone
- ↑ Judith Gottesman, MSW. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ Judith Gottesman, MSW. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/ConnecticutChildrens/en/teens/break-up.html
- ↑ Judith Gottesman, MSW. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ Judith Gottesman, MSW. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/201903/when-is-it-ok-ghost-someone
- ↑ https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2015/10/01/after-the-relationship-technology-and-breakups/
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/ConnecticutChildrens/en/teens/break-up.html
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.