Who Is My Soulmate According to Astrology?

Co-authored by Stina Garbis and Aly Rusciano

Last Updated: March 2, 2022 References

Finding that special someone is something we all crave at one time or another. Your soulmate is a person you connect with in mind, body, and spirit, but how do you know who they are? We’ve answered your most commonly asked questions on how you can find your celestial compatibility with your astrology chart. Astrology may not be able to tell you exactly who your soulmate is, but it can help you see what type of person you’re most likely to connect with—so keep reading to learn more about your soulmate’s personality!

Section 1 of 5:

What age will I meet my soulmate according to my zodiac sign?

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Aries will meet their soulmate when they’re 21 years old. If you're an Aries nearing your 20s, you’re most likely mature but still searching for yourself. This is the perfect time for you to stumble across your soulmate because you’re still experimenting with life. Your soulmate will be able to see you at your best and at your worst—your vibrant, honest, and active energy pulling them towards you.^{[1]
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Tauruses will meet their soulmate when they’re 16 to 18 years old. If you’re a Taurus in your late teens, you might be in a relationship but aren’t sure where it’s headed. Your life is a mystery, and you may be distressed by the instability of it all.^{[2]
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Research source} Your friends are the most important thing to you right now, and you may be surprised to find your soulmate in a platonic relationship.

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Geminis will meet their soulmate when they’re about 19 years old. Serious relationships may not be your thing if you’re a Gemini, especially as you reach important milestones in life. You want to meet as many people as possible and forge new connections.^{[3]
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Cancers will meet their soulmate when they’re between 15 and 21 years old. As a Cancer, you may have started searching for your soulmate at a young age. You’re at the top of the social ladder—a great person, host, friend, and entertainer.^{[5]
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Leos will meet their soulmate when they’re around 25 years old. As a natural born leader, you’ll be ready to enter a serious relationship when you’ve figured out the direction of your life. That perfect someone will come walking by when everything is aligned—just when you think you’re settled and got everything figured out, your soulmate will come in and wreck all of your plans!^{[6]
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Virgos will meet their soulmate when they least expect it. If you’re a Virgo, you most likely care deeply for anything broken, including relationships.^{[7]
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Libras will meet their soulmate when they’re 20 years old. The transition from a teen to an adult can be a scary time, but it can also be the most exciting if you’re a Libra. This is a time of discovery for you, and you may just find that your soulmate happens to be a longtime best friend. Your soulmate is someone you can talk to for hours without getting bored.^{[8]
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Scorpios will meet their soulmate as young as 12 or 17 years old. It can be hard to express your emotions when you’re a kid, and it’s especially hard if you’re a Scorpio. Your soulmate is likely someone you’ve known your whole childhood, someone you haven’t been able to connect your feelings to until you’ve grown up.^{[9]
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Sagittariuses will meet their soulmate before turning 28 years old. If you’re a Sagittarius, your free and independent nature will have your soulmate running to you! By your late 20s, you have a grasp on your life or at least know what you want. Falling into a serious relationship may be scary at first, especially if you feel like something’s expected of you.^{[10]
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Capricorns will meet their soulmate by 30 years old. Commitment is most likely your love language if you’re a Capricorn. You strive for serious and mature relationships that you may not be able to find until you’ve lived through your adolescent years. You’ve learned to accept the unpredictability of life, and are ready to take on a relationship worth fighting for.^{[11]
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Aquarians will meet their soulmate when they’re around 22 years old. If you’re an Aquarius, you may think people don’t understand you. Your soulmate is someone you can immediately connect with on a deeper level, someone you believe can see the real you.^{[12]
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Pisces will meet their soulmate at 17 or 19 years old. As a Pisces, you see the world through an imaginative lens. You’ve dreamt of your soulmate for as long as you can remember, and you’re most likely to find them during your teenage years. Your “meet cute” is everything if not adorable, and you will put your entire heart and soul into the relationship to grow your special connection.^{[13]
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What zodiac signs are compatible?

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Aries is the most compatible with Gemini, Sagittarius, and Leo. Unless treated in a hostile way, Aries can get along with just anybody with their bubbling nature and leading abilities. Fire and air signs are the most compatible because fire signs understand an Aries’s spontaneous nature and air signs bring out an Aries playful curiosity.^{[14]
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- Virgo, Capricorn, and Taurus are the least compatible.^{[15]
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Taurus is the most compatible with Cancer, Capricorn, and Pisces. Although a Taurus can be stubborn and irritable, they can also be extremely passionate and peaceful with the right partner. Signs that also have an interest in the arts, beauty, and romantic pleasures are the most compatible with a Taurus because they can satisfy each other physically and mentally.^{[16]
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- Aquarius, Gemini, and Sagittarius are the least compatible.
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Gemini is the most compatible with Libra, Aquarius, and Aries. Full of energy and a great communicator, a Gemini is awesome to be around. You would think they would be compatible with everyone, but their lack of focus and nervous nature can set off other signs.^{[17]
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- Pisces, Virgo, and Scorpio are the least compatible.
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Cancer is the most compatible with Taurus, Scorpio, and Virgo. Hiding under their outer shell, a Cancer will find the most peace with someone who is patient, understanding, and trustworthy. Water and air signs prove to be a Cancer’s perfect match as their relatively sweet and subdued energies blend well with a Cancer’s mystery and deep emotions.^{[18]
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- Aquarius, Libra, and Gemini are the least compatible.
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Leo is the most compatible with Sagittarius, Aries, and Gemini. This daring, heroic, and rather proud sign works best in relationships that will egg on their fire. Fire and air signs will challenge a Leo and bring out their playful curiosity.^{[19]
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- Capricorn, Taurus, and Scorpio are the least compatible.
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Virgo is the most compatible with Taurus, Cancer, and Capricorn. Practical, logical, and quite meticulous, a Virgo finds the spontaneous nature of fire signs difficult to relate to. They will find the most peace with water and earth signs as they both enjoy times of vulnerability and value stability.^{[20]
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- Gemini, Libra, and Aries are the least compatible.
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Libra is the most compatible with Aquarius, Gemini, and Sagittarius. A Libra will try to make everyone happy, but, to their dismay, they can’t please everyone. This sign’s need to socialize and be physically affectionate can unintentionally turn others away.^{[21]
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- Pisces, Cancer, and Taurus are the least compatible.
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Scorpio is the most compatible with Cancer, Capricorn, and Pisces. Being rather sensitive and private, a Scorpio may have a hard time relating to the impulsive nature of fire signs. A Scorpio’s dark inner world is best blended with signs that help focus their energy and also enjoy solitude.^{[22]
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- Libra, Leo, and Gemini are the least compatible.
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Sagittarius is the most compatible with Aries, Aquarius, and Leo. This optimistic fire sign blends well with other signs that love to travel and experience new things. A Sagittarius needs someone who will go on adventures with them and not dwell on the smaller things in life.^{[23]
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- Taurus, Capricorn, Virgo are the least compatible.
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Capricorn is the most compatible with Taurus, Pisces, and Virgo. Highly responsible and anxious about the future, a Capricorn needs someone who can ground them in times of stress. A hard-working and determined person will be the right match for them.^{[24]
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- Aries, Sagittarius, and Leo are the least compatible.
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Aquarius is the most compatible with Sagittarius, Libra, and Gemini. Fire and air signs will be an Aquarius’s soulmate because their spontaneous and influencing nature will bring out the best in them. Being able to share ideas and make radical changes is important for these pairs.^{[25]
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- Virgo, Pisces, and Scorpio are the least compatible.
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Pisces is the most compatible with Scorpio, Cancer, and Capricorn. One of the most sensitive zodiac signs, a Pisces needs someone who can fuel their imagination and empathize with them. Water and earth signs will let them pour their heart out while bringing them back down to earth.^{[26]
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- Libra, Gemini, and Sagittarius are the least compatible.

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What house is my soulmate?

The 7th Astrological House is where you will find romantic relationships. Often referred to as the House of Partnership, the 7th House shows how you can work with a partner for a greater purpose.^{[27]
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What is my Ascendent?

Your Ascendent in astrology is your Rising sign. Your birth chart is like a snapshot of what the sky looked like when you were born. Each sign represents a planet, and your Rising sign is what zodiac sign was ascending the eastern horizon when you were born. This sign determines how others see you. Think of it like a mask you wear when you go out in public. This is different from your star sign or main zodiac sign. So, if you’ve ever felt like you don’t resonate with your zodiac sign, it may be because your Rising sign is more front-and-center.^{[29]
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- Your Ascendent can help you learn how you might react with your soulmate when first meeting.
- To find your Ascendent, you must know the exact time you were born as the ascending signs change every two hours.
- Plug your birthday, birth time, and location of birth into websites like Astro.com or AstroTheme.com to learn your Rising sign—or check out your birth chart if you already have that!
- Aries: You’re viewed to be overzealous and passionate about life.
- Taurus: You’re seen to have a strong work ethic and can be resistant to change.
- Gemini: You’re seen as sociable, flirtatious, and impulsive.
- Cancer: You’re usually considered the mom of the group or the homebody.
- Leo: You’re viewed as the showstopper and love putting effort into your physical appearance.
- Virgo: You’re often reserved and don’t typically wear your heart on your sleeve.
- Libra: You’re possibly the mediator of the group and have a sweet personality.
- Scorpio: You’re sometimes told you can be intimidating.
- Sagittarius: You’re the traveller of the group and are always down for a good time.
- Capricorn: You’re seen as the traditional one who follows the rules no matter what.
- Aquarius: You’re seen as the one who goes against the norm and takes a stand on social issues.
- Pisces: You’re viewed as empathetic and people say they feel safe around you.

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How do I find my soulmate using my natal chart?

Your natal chart can’t tell you who your soulmate is, but it can help you know what personality you’re the most compatible with. First, take a look at your natal chart. You can get a free natal or birth chart on sites like Astrology.com and Alabe.com. There are four things that need to be considered when finding your soulmate: Moon/Jupiter, 7th House Ruler, North Node, and Asteroid Psyche. If you’re a man, focus on your Moon sign; if you’re a woman, focus on your Jupiter sign.^{[30]
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- 1. On a sheet of paper, list out the sign of your Moon or Jupiter and the house it is in.^{[31]
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- 2. List your 7th House Ruler along with any planet signs that may reside in this House on your chart.
- 3. Write down the sign of your North Node and the House it is in.
- 4. Locate your Psyche, noting the sign and what House it is in.
- 5. Notice if there are any patterns in what you’ve listed. Note each sign with their retrospective House and planet. For example, if you’re Jupiter is in Gemini, you would also list the 3rd House and Mercury. Continue this with all four factors.^{[32]
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- 6. Now you have a complete list of what your soulmate might be like! See what traits are associated with the archetypes you’ve noted to get an idea of your soulmate’s personality.^{[33]
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