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Personal motivation is key to maintaining almost all aspects of life. If we're not motivated, we're more likely to squander our time and neglect our personal and professional goals. Even the most determined people can lose steam sometimes. Keep reading for some sure-fire tips for getting back on track.
Steps
Keeping Spirits High
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1Remind yourself of your goals. Usually before devoting time to any specific endeavor, we tend to make short- and long-term goals. Remember to keep your goals realistic, that way you wont be disheartened if you don't reach them. That doesn't mean you can't push and challenge yourself though, if you don't challenge yourself, then it's not really a goal. If you start to lose sight of your goals, then you may be less motivated than if you were always checking to see how much closer you are getting throughout the whole process. Keeping track of your goals and checking your progress can help keep you motivated day in and day out.[1]
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2Make weekly checkpoints to track your progress. Everyone needs to see how they are keeping up with their goals if they want to stay motivated. If you see that you are on track or even excelling every time you check your progress, you will be motivated and happy that you are getting there.[2] If you see that you are lagging on your goals, it may be the kick start you need to help get you back on track.Advertisement
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3Make sure to reward yourself every time you achieve your weekly goals. This could be as simple as a bowl of ice cream after a long, hard week of working out or as rewarding as a trip to the spa for all your hard work. Whatever rewards will keep you going are the ones you should be giving yourself.[3]
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4Give yourself breaks. Sometimes even the most determined people get overwhelmed. You may be burning yourself out, and a much-needed break might be just what you need. If it is a fitness goal, maybe take a three- or four-day rest instead of your normal one or two-day rest. If it is at school, don't try to do all your work in one sitting, but stretch it out over the course of the day or week, if possible.[4]
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5Don't be too hard on yourself.[5] Everyone falls short sometimes. If you fail to meet your goals for the week, take it as a lesson. Try to complete your next target before time, so that you can use the saved time to complete the pending work. This way you stay right on schedule even if you have taken a hit. It's not always about how hard you hit, but how well you can take a hard hit and keep moving on. Don't dwell on failure; just accept it as a human occurrence, and continue working towards your goals.[6]
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6Watch and read motivational stories or speeches. Everyone deserves a great pep talk every once in a while. Stay elevated by watching YouTube videos of inspirational moments so you can suddenly feel a new sense of motivation to keep striving. Here are just a few example of easily-found inspirational media:[7]
- Mary Schmich's famous "Everybody's Free (To Wear Sunscreen)" speech.
- Almost any Hollywood sports movie.
- Much rap music - "rags to riches" is a common lyrical theme.
- Historical stories of bravery or courage (see: Jack Churchill, Audie Murphy, etc.)
Beating Procrastination
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1Eliminate your distractions. Identify anything that's causing you to procrastinate, then get rid of it. Sell it or put it in a storage locker. Move away from it. Throw it away. You can't become motivated if you're squandering all of your time.[8]
- If you're spending too much time aimlessly browsing the internet, install a "productivity" extension in your browser. These free extensions allow you to block certain sites and/or set time limits for recreational browsing.
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2Raise the stakes for yourself. Hold yourself accountable in your own eyes and the eyes of others. Set personal penalties for yourself if you don't act throw out some delicious cookies you've been saving or make a donation to charity. Tell your friends and family about things you plan on doing. If you don't do these things, they'll know, and you'll be embarrassed - now you have a great reason to get started!
- Write yourself little notes to keep you motivated or set a reminder on your phone that reminds you every 20 minutes of a task you need to accomplish. This might get annoying enough to make you actually do it.
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3Take some caffeine. Only you know where to draw the line in terms of dosage - one person's typical morning brew might make another jittery and unfocused all day. A low to moderate dose can make you feel alert, oriented, and focused.[9]
- If you've already got a caffeine addiction - that is, you need caffeine just to function normally - you might be out of luck!
- Stay away from more powerful stimulants unless a doctor has prescribed them for a specific condition. They can be extremely habit-forming if used carelessly.
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4Move your body. Go for a short run, do some jumping jacks, or shadowbox. Even light physical exercise can affect our moods, making us feel more active and dynamic. Exercise has even been shown to thwart depression and low self-image - both hurdles to personal motivation efforts.[10]
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5Break your task into manageable pieces. If you're having serious motivation problems, breaking one large task into many small tasks can make it much easier to approach psychologically. Because we get a feeling of accomplishment from completing each step of the task, this trick can increase motivation substantially.[11] Sometimes, all that's needed to gain the momentum to tackle the whole project is to complete the first simple step.[12]
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6Surprise yourself. Even tremendously motivated people can be driven to lethargy and inaction if they have to perform tedious, repetitive tasks for weeks or months on end. Break up the monotony with spontaneous and out-of-the-ordinary activities. Try to create an internal sense of unpredictability - even you don't know exactly what you'll do tomorrow. This can ease the psychological tedium of work that is the same day after day. Here are just a few ideas you might want to experiment with:
- Spend a lunch break at a scenic place outdoors.
- Have an impromptu soccer game with friends or coworkers.
- Surprise your workplace with some home cooking.
- Take a friend or significant other out for a night on the town, even if there's no special occasion.
- Change your personal style. Cultivate a drastically different look, then wait for reactions from your friends and coworkers.
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QuestionHow can I achieve my goals?Camber HillCamber Hill is a numerologist, author, speaker, and the owner of Camber Hill Coaching based in Long Beach, California. For over 37 years, Camber has coached entrepreneurs, creatives, business executives, and professional sports figures. He has also inspired creatives in the entertainment industry such as professional directors, writers, actors, and top radio personalities. Camber’s unique use of numerology allows him to understand the under-current which drives his clients to create long-term solutions and measurable results. His work has been featured in the History Channel's "The Human Calculator," The Los Angeles Times, Palm Springs Life Magazine, and California radio programs. He is also a member of The International Coaching Federations and is a board member of the ICF Orange County's Board of Directors. Additionally, Camber is distinguished as a certified business owner by the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce.
Life CoachWell, obviously you have to pursue your goals. You have to actually put the work in to achieve the things you want. If you're struggling to focus your energy, try just writing your goals down. Literally grab a pen and some paper and start writing out the things you want. This is one of the best ways to push your energy in a positive direction and reframe your focus. -
QuestionWhat if my mind wanders?Camber HillCamber Hill is a numerologist, author, speaker, and the owner of Camber Hill Coaching based in Long Beach, California. For over 37 years, Camber has coached entrepreneurs, creatives, business executives, and professional sports figures. He has also inspired creatives in the entertainment industry such as professional directors, writers, actors, and top radio personalities. Camber’s unique use of numerology allows him to understand the under-current which drives his clients to create long-term solutions and measurable results. His work has been featured in the History Channel's "The Human Calculator," The Los Angeles Times, Palm Springs Life Magazine, and California radio programs. He is also a member of The International Coaching Federations and is a board member of the ICF Orange County's Board of Directors. Additionally, Camber is distinguished as a certified business owner by the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce.
Life CoachIt helps to remind yourself that your brain is in your body. The same way your arm can fall asleep, your brain can kind of wander off and focus on something else without warning. It helps to remember that there's consciousness outside of yourself. That's what wisdom is. It's the ability to tap into alternative perspectives to redirect your thoughts. So if you're at work and you start thinking, "I really want a chocolate bar or a snack," remind yourself, "No, I'm trying to lose weight," and stop that thought in its place. -
QuestionHow can I stay motivated when I'm feeling down?Camber HillCamber Hill is a numerologist, author, speaker, and the owner of Camber Hill Coaching based in Long Beach, California. For over 37 years, Camber has coached entrepreneurs, creatives, business executives, and professional sports figures. He has also inspired creatives in the entertainment industry such as professional directors, writers, actors, and top radio personalities. Camber’s unique use of numerology allows him to understand the under-current which drives his clients to create long-term solutions and measurable results. His work has been featured in the History Channel's "The Human Calculator," The Los Angeles Times, Palm Springs Life Magazine, and California radio programs. He is also a member of The International Coaching Federations and is a board member of the ICF Orange County's Board of Directors. Additionally, Camber is distinguished as a certified business owner by the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce.
Life CoachDepression, anxiety, and negative thoughts can come out of nowhere sometimes. It helps to just fight those thoughts as hard as you can as soon as you get an inkling of a sense that negative energy is coming your way. It won't always work, but it can. Just tell yourself, "No. Stop. You are not welcome here. You are changing my thoughts. Go away." Sometimes this can just stop those subconscious feelings in their tracks.
Warnings
- If you are severely unmotivated or have a hard time motivating yourself to accomplish even basic, necessary goals such as getting out of bed, working, or practicing personal hygiene, see a doctor or counselor this may be a sign of depression.⧼thumbs_response⧽
References
- ↑ Sydney Axelrod. Certified Life Coach. Expert Interview. 30 June 2020.
- ↑ Sydney Axelrod. Certified Life Coach. Expert Interview. 30 June 2020.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201310/give-your-motivation-makeover-little-psychology
- ↑ https://www.edutopia.org/article/research-tested-benefits-breaks
- ↑ Sydney Axelrod. Certified Life Coach. Expert Interview. 30 June 2020.
- ↑ Camber Hill. Life Coach. Expert Interview. 16 June 2020.
- ↑ https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/motivation-how-to-get-started-and-staying-motivated
- ↑ https://caps.ucsc.edu/resources/time-management.html
- ↑ https://emedicine.medscape.com/article/1182710-overview
- ↑ https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/motivation-how-to-get-started-and-staying-motivated#goals
- ↑ Sydney Axelrod. Certified Life Coach. Expert Interview. 30 June 2020.
- ↑ https://news.uga.edu/break-large-tasks-down-into-smaller-more-manageable-pieces/
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To stay motivated, break up your goals into smaller, achievable tasks so you can check stuff off your to-do list as you go and feel like you're accomplishing things. Also, decide on a reward for yourself that you'll get when you complete your to-do list, like a meal at your favorite restaurant or spending time with friends. You should also schedule yourself regular breaks, even if they're just for 10-15 minutes. Breaks will keep you from getting overwhelmed, and they'll give you something to look forward to so you stay motivated! To learn how to prevent procrastination so you stay motivated, scroll down!