This article was written by Laura Bilotta and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Laura Bilotta is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Founder of Single in the City, her dating and relationship coaching service based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. With over 18 years of experience, she focuses on helping singles date more intentionally, encouraging them to let go of negative patterns so that they can attract the love that they deserve. Her experience, skills, and insights have led to thousands of successfully united over 65,000 singles through events and one-on-one matchmaking coaching sessions. She has been the host of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto (AM640) for 6 years and is known as The Hookup Queen of Clubhouse; her popular singles club, Single in the City, has over 95.5K members who regularly join in weekly dating and relationship-focused rooms.
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If your boyfriend is feeling blue, figuring out exactly what he needs can be tough. You might want to do everything you can to support him, but knowing what to do and how to do it isn’t always easy. Thankfully, while everyone's a little different, there are some tried and true methods you can use to bring a smile back to your boyfriend’s face.
This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach, John Keegan, founder of The Awakened Lifestyle. Check out the full interview here.
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QuestionWhat does a man want in a woman?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachRemember that men are, in many ways, more sensitive than women. You can bet that your partner wants to feel heard and understood. That doesn't mean you have to always agree or go along, but you should listen to him and let him be his own person. -
QuestionHow do I make my relationship not boring?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachIf you want to avoid boredom in your relationship, try having a proper physical relationship where you both are feeling touched, kissed and all that stuff! Don’t let the fire burn out! It's all in the little things.
References
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach & Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 4 March 2020.
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach & Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 4 March 2020.
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 10 June 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mindful-dating/202012/when-your-partner-needs-space-and-you-crave-closeness
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 10 June 2021.
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/8-tips-for-writing-a-love-letter-to-your-spouse#1
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/advice/g488/cheer-up-your-boyfriend/?slide=4
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/advice/g488/cheer-up-your-boyfriend/?slide=5
- ↑ https://au.reachout.com/articles/saras-experience-helping-her-boyfriend-overcome-depression