How to Look Beautiful in a Guy's Eyes

Co-authored by Louie Felix and Danielle Blinka, MA, MPA

Last Updated: March 11, 2023

Have you ever wondered how to look beautiful in a guys eyes? It's kind of hard to know when you don't want to ask him. This wikiHow will give you the answers that you have been looking for.

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Clothing

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Dress well. Wear what makes you happy! Confidence is key!
- You always want to look as feminine and attractive as you can. So, think about what you're going to wear and how you're going to present yourself like you would for a job interview.^{[1]
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  Dating Coach & Matchmaker
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Develop your style. Whenever you wear a low-cut shirt, make sure it does not look trashy, as this may send the wrong message to guys. You can show off your collarbone, but going below the rib-bone is too much. Show off your personality in your clothes and accessories, this will give guys a clear look into how you are as a person.
- Try a new look occasionally. Be sure it fits well, and that you like wearing it.

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Grooming

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Cleanse daily and be presentable at all times. If you feel good about yourself and your looks, that will often be a strong attraction. Try something refreshing, such as a lavender bubble bath or a body cleanser. Use deodorant.
- Shave regularly, especially your legs and armpit hair.
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Get a facial. A facial will make your skin glow and stand out. You don't want your face to be full of pimples and dry skin.
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Give yourself a manicure. Fix up your nails with some strikingly colorful designs of your own creation. Guys like girls who take care of themselves, especially if they are a bit out of the ordinary.
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Use make-up. Don't go over the edge with make-up, guys can't take it! Try experimenting at home to get a good, natural look that enchants the best of your facial features. And think according to where you are going, and what time of the day it is. Darker make-up is used at night, and at clubs. Lighter make-up is used at day, and in the mall or at school/work. Also, find out what colors work best for you.
- Try something new. Maybe start wearing red lipstick. Studies show that men are more drawn to women's lips than any other feature on their face.^{[citation needed]} If you're not in the mood for lipstick, try lip balm. Lip gloss works too.
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Use perfume. If he is drawn to you with a lovely scent, then he will actually start to see your inner beauty. Don't wear too much, though. Your crush doesn't want to smell you all the way across the room. Just when he's next to you.
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Style your hair. Curl your hair, braids, or maybe get it cut in a new way to make the most of your facial features. Keep your hair nice and clean. Trim your hair every now, to avoid having split ends.
- Don't over style your hair. Heat damages your hair, so don't straighten it or curl it every day.

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Attitude

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Be confident. Queen Latifah, for example. A stunning woman, and large. Have you seen her in the red carpet? She struts down that walkway with her head held high and back firmly straight. She's confident with her size, and so should you. Confidence and security are two things that men find sexy and attractive. A woman or teenager who isn't secure about herself tends to give off that same negative vibe. Basically, if you think you're ugly, guys will think that too. Hold your head high, strut your butt, thin or thick. You are your own person - love yourself and accept you, for who you are.
- How do you feel about yourself inside? It all depends on you. Try to feel beautiful, and have self confidence.
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Have a good attitude. Be out-going, but serene. Keep your cool around guys you like, and be yourself.^{[2]
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Louie Felix
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Expert Interview. 5 May 2020.} Don't be fake. Faking yourself attracts the wrong species of guy. Having a sense of humor is good too, but know when to be silent, and when to crack a joke.
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Be social. Some guys don't like you for looks, they like you if you talk. Don't be too shy, but don't be too talkative.
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Display a nice smile often. Having a beautiful smile will attract a guy anytime. It also pulls your whole look together. It's nice showing your teeth once in a while.

Expert Q&A

Question

How do you know if he's the right one?

Louie Felix
Dating Coach & Matchmaker
Louie Felix is a Dating Coach and Matchmaker, and the founder and CEO of Matchmaking VIP, a company which provides concierge-level matchmaking services to clients around the world. He is also the COO of Agape Matchmaking based in New York City. With almost 16 years of professional matchmaking and dating coaching experience, Louie has served as CEO for the United States' two largest matchmaking companies serving over 50,000 clients. He has been featured as an expert matchmaker for shows on E! Entertainment Television, WeTV and the CW. He was also recently acknowledged as a top 5 worldwide matchmaker by both the International Dating Conference and the Matchmakers Alliance. Louie was also selected as one of America's top 10 Relationship Experts for the Great Love Debate National Tour.

Louie Felix

Dating Coach & Matchmaker

Expert Answer

You're never going to find anybody that's 100% what you're looking for. Try to be open and willing to compromise on something, always thinking about what you want or who you see yourself with.
Question

How can I look more attractive to my date?

Louie Felix
Dating Coach & Matchmaker
Louie Felix is a Dating Coach and Matchmaker, and the founder and CEO of Matchmaking VIP, a company which provides concierge-level matchmaking services to clients around the world. He is also the COO of Agape Matchmaking based in New York City. With almost 16 years of professional matchmaking and dating coaching experience, Louie has served as CEO for the United States' two largest matchmaking companies serving over 50,000 clients. He has been featured as an expert matchmaker for shows on E! Entertainment Television, WeTV and the CW. He was also recently acknowledged as a top 5 worldwide matchmaker by both the International Dating Conference and the Matchmakers Alliance. Louie was also selected as one of America's top 10 Relationship Experts for the Great Love Debate National Tour.

Louie Felix

Dating Coach & Matchmaker

Expert Answer

A common mistake that women make when they go out is to go straight from the office to the date, so they're still in what's called work mode. Go home, take a shower, have a glass of wine, etc. This way, you'll be more attractive and will create a better first impression.
Question

How do I tell if a guy likes me?

Community Answer

He’ll probably look over at you a lot and find excuses to touch you. He might also try to make you laugh often and show off a bit.