Juicy, Deep, & Hot-Seat Questions to Get to Know Your Friends Better

Spice up your next sleepover with these fun and thought-provoking questions

Co-authored by wikiHow Staff

Last Updated: March 6, 2023

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Trying to deepen your friendship and become the ultimate BFF? If so, we’ve got you covered! No matter how long you’ve known someone, there’s always something new and exciting they have yet to share. So, get ready to crank up the heat and take your friendship to the next level. In this article, we’re providing the ultimate list of spicy and personal questions that you can ask your friends to build a stronger bond, in person or over text.

Section 1 of 3:

Spicy

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Who was your first crush?
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Have you ever had a crush on your sibling’s friend?

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Have you ever had a crush on your friend’s sibling?
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When did you have your first kiss?
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How many people have you kissed?
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Have you ever French kissed someone?
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What’s the most attractive physical feature?
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Do you think you’re a good kisser?
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What’s the most awkward date you’ve ever been on?
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When was the last time you were jealous of someone?
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Have you ever snuck out of the house?
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What’s your type?
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Who’s the hottest person at school?
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If you had to date someone in your class, who would it be?
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If you had to date one of your friends, who would it be?
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Do you think one of your friends has a crush on you? If so, who?
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Have you ever played dumb to get someone’s attention?
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Have you ever practiced kissing your hand?
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What’s the most scandalous piece of clothing you own?
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Would you consider yourself boy/girl crazy?
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What would you do to catch someone’s attention?
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Have you slid into anyone’s DMs?
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Do you have beef with anyone?
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Have you ever been on a blind date?
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Have you ever been in a love triangle?
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Have you ever shoplifted?
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What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
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Has someone ever spread a rumor about you?
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Have you ever spread a rumor about someone?
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Have you ever lied about your age?
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Have you ever snuck into a R-rated movie?
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Have you ever admitted your feelings to a crush?
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Have you ever been on a dating app?
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Have you ever dated someone you met online?
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How would you hit on a stranger?
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Have you ever tried to sabotage someone’s relationship?
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What type of flirt are you?
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Would you rather be single or in a relationship?
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Have you ever snitched on someone?
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Have you ever accidentally posted something on social media?
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When’s the last time you were caught in a lie?
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Have you ever cheated on anyone?
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Have you ever been cheated on?
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Have you ever lost a crush to a friend?
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Have you ever sent a juicy text to the wrong person?
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Have you ever played Spin the Bottle?
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Have you stayed up all night to talk to a crush?
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Have you ever stolen something from a friend?
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Have you ever trespassed?
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Have you ever left in the middle of a date?
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Have you ever pretended to like something to impress your crush?
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Have you ever been friend-zoned?
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Have you ever friend-zoned someone?
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Have you ever stalked your crush online?
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Have you ever accidentally liked your crush’s old post?
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What’s the meanest thing you’ve ever said about someone?
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Have you ever smoked?
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Have you ever drank alcohol?
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What’s the steamiest scene you’ve ever watched in a movie?
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Have you ever walked in on your parents?
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What’s the most embarrassing thing your parents have caught you doing?
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At what age did your parents give you “the talk”?
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Have you ever had a crush on a teacher?
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Would you ever go behind a friend’s back with a crush?
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Have you ever read dirty fanfic?
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What’s the biggest secret you’ve kept from your parents?
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What’s the biggest thing you’ve ever gotten away with?
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What’s the flirtiest line you’ve ever used on someone?
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What’s your toxic trait?
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Do you care more about appearance or personality?
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Have you ever gotten in trouble with the police?

Section 2 of 3:

Deep

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When’s the last time you cried?
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What’s your biggest fear?
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Do you believe in fate or free will?
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Have you ever felt betrayed by someone?
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Do you believe in love at first sight?
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What’s the longest relationship you’ve ever been in?
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Have you ever been in love?
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Do you want to get married someday?
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Do you want to have kids someday?
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What’s your favorite childhood memory?
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What are you the most proud of?
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What’s one thing you wish you could change about yourself?
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Do you have any hidden talents?
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What’s your dream job?
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Would you say you’re an introvert or extrovert?
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What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
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Would you consider yourself religious?
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What’s your biggest regret in life?
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Who are you closest to in your family?
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How do you relax and unwind?
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Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
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What’s the biggest misconception about you?
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How would your friends describe you?
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How would you describe yourself?
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What’s the #1 thing on your bucket list?
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Would you rather have one close friend or many not-so-close friends?
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Are you a planner or are you spontaneous?
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Is the glass half-full or half-empty?
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If you could solve one problem in the world, what would it be?
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Do you care about being popular?
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How many times have you moved?
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What’s the biggest life lesson you’ve learned so far?
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What are you most grateful for?
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Would you rather have true love or a million dollars?
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Do you think money can buy happiness?
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What’s your biggest pet peeve?
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Who’s your role model?
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What’s your biggest insecurity?
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What’s your favorite part of your body?
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What do you love the most about yourself?
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Have you ever been bullied?
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Do you enjoy being alone?
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What’s your biggest life question?
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Do you prefer hanging out with family or friends?
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How did your parents meet?
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What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever made?
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What’s something you’ve never told anyone?
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What do you think is the most important skill?
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What’s something you wish you were taught as a child?
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What’s the worst punishment you received as a child?
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What’s the best and worst thing about social media?
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What’s something that’s not taught in school that you think should be?
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How do you handle peer pressure?
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Are you more creative or logical?
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What’s the most challenging part of your life right now?
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What’s the best gift you’ve ever received?
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Have you ever blamed someone for a mistake you made?
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Do you believe in astrology?
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What’s your zodiac sign?
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Would you want to live forever? Why or why not?
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What could you write a book about?
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What’s your perfect day?
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What quality do you value the most in a friendship?
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If your house caught on fire and you could only save three things, what would they be?
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What are your thoughts on cancel culture?
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What’s your favorite place in the entire world?
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Would you rather be considered pretty, smart, or funny?
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If you could travel anywhere, where would you go?
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What’s something that brings you joy?
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What role do you play in your friend group?
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Do you think physical or emotional pain is worse?
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What do you miss the most about childhood?
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If your life was a book, what’s the title of the chapter you’re in now?
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Would you rather always have to tell the truth or always have to tell a lie?
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What’s the best and worst part about getting older?

Section 3 of 3:

Fun

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If you could switch places with someone for a day, who would it be?
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What’s the most embarrassing song on your playlist?
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Do you still sleep with a stuffed animal?
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What’s the most awkward moment you’ve ever experienced?
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If you were invisible, who would you spy on?
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If you had the house to yourself for one week, what would you do?
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If you could break up one couple at our school, who would it be?
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What’s the worst grade you’ve ever received?
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Have you ever lied to get out of something?
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How would you get revenge on an ex?
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If you could live in a fictional world, what would you choose?
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How long could you go without talking to your best friend?
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Do you have a secret crush?
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Who’s your favorite celeb couple?
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What’s the most embarrassing thing your parents do?
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Have you ever fallen down in public?
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Have you ever ripped your pants in public?
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If you could raid one person’s closet, who would it be?
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Would you rather be a better singer or dancer?
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Would you ditch your best friend to go out with your crush?
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What’s the dumbest purchase you’ve ever made?
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What’s your favorite thing in your room?
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What’s your screen time?
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What’s your most-used app?
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Do you prefer calls or texts?
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How long could you go without your phone?
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What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
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If you had 15 minutes of fame, what would it be for?
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Have you ever stolen something from a friend?
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Do you believe in conspiracy theories?
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Who are your dream dinner party guests?
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Would you rather live without salt or sugar?
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If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
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If you could time-travel, what decade are you going to?
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Who do you think is the flirtiest person in our friend group?
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Do you prefer TV shows, movies, or documentaries?
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Who’s your favorite fictional character?
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What’s your favorite band?
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What’s your favorite drink (besides water)?
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What’s your favorite sequel?
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What’s the first thing you do in the morning?
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What’s the most random fact you know?
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Who’s your celebrity crush?
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What’s one song you know all the lyrics to?
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Do you have any weird habits?
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If you were on a reality show, what would your tagline be?
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How do you feel about pineapple on pizza?
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What’s the funniest dream you’ve ever had?
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Do you think you could survive a zombie apocalypse?
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What’s your biggest irrational fear?
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Do you prefer staying in or going out?
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What’s your favorite and least favorite fashion trend?
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If you could only eat one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be?
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Do you collect anything?
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What’s your favorite thing to do in the summer?
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If you could speak any language overnight, what would it be?
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What’s the longest you’ve slept?
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Are you a morning or night person?
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What’s your favorite food combination?
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What’s the first thing you notice about someone?
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Who’s the most attractive animated character?
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Would you rather go bungee jumping or skydiving?
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Who would play you in the movie about your life?
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What’s your favorite holiday?
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What’s your favorite day of the week?
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What’s your favorite subject?
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If you had 3 wishes, what would they be?
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Do you prefer dogs or cats?
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Would you rather have more time or money?