This article was co-authored by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Devin McSween. John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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You text your crush every day, regularly bump into them on the weekends, and know all about their favorite musician and go-to brunch spot. After weeks of talking, one question looms large: how long is this talking stage going to last before you start dating, or decide to call it quits? If you’re wondering where you and your crush stand and where the talking stage has you headed, we’ve got you covered! In this article, we’ll tell you all about the talking stage, how long it should last, and how you can turn talking into an official relationship.
Things You Should Know
- Most talking stages last several weeks to 2 months.
- The talking stage is when you’re getting to know someone and aren’t exclusive or in a relationship yet.
- To get out of the talking stage, ask your crush to hang out in person, open up about your past and beliefs, and tell them how you feel.
Steps
Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do you know if the talking stage is failing?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachTake a look at what your values and are and how they line up with the other person's. For example, someone else's values might be enjoying freedom and not wanting any entanglements while you value commitment more.
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