12 Empowering Divorce Party Ideas

Co-authored by Jin S. Kim, MA and Hannah Madden

Last Updated: May 12, 2022

Whether you’re celebrating the end of a toxic marriage or just the beginning of your new life, a divorce party is a great way to honor the changes you’ve made. Plus, throwing a party is a great way to thank the friends and family who have been by your side the entire time. If you need ideas or divorce party themes, don’t sweat it! In this article, we’ll give you all the inspiration you need to celebrate your divorce and your new lease on life.

1

Host a lemonade-themed party.

This fun party theme helps you find your silver lining. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade! Serve your guests fresh lemonade and bake a lemon poppyseed cake to go along with it. Don’t forget your party decorations in a bright, lemon yellow color.
- Get a fun yard flag to go along with the theme of your party.

2

Have a sleepover.

An adult sleepover is not only fun, but comforting, too. Throw it back to your younger years and invite everyone to stay the night at your house. Bring out the popcorn and throw on a few movies to pass the time—and don’t forget the pizza!^{[1]
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- Lean into your nostalgic side even more by playing board games and gossiping about your celebrity crushes.

3

Host a Survivor party.

Celebrate "surviving" your marriage with a party based on the TV show. Get island-themed decorations, serve drinks inside a coconut, and have a few episodes of the show playing in the background for guests to watch.
- To go all out with these theme, order a Survivor buff or bandana for each of your guests so they can look the part.

4

Throw a make-your-own cocktail party.

Bring the bar home with this DIY-style party. Have everyone bring the ingredients for their favorite cocktail, then take turns whipping them up in the kitchen. You can do a taste test and pick your favorite one at the end of the night. Don’t forget the snacks, like chips, pretzels, and cookies!
- Need cocktail recipe ideas? Try making a margarita or whipping up an Old Fashioned.

5

Have a spa day.

Indulge in some much-needed relaxation with your best pals. This is the perfect divorce party idea for her. Book a day at your local spa and get a massage, a facial, or a pedicure. Today is all about you, and the more you can rest and relax, the better! Order some finger food, like tiny sandwiches, and sip on champagne as you rest and relax all day.
- Or, stay at home and have a DIY spa day. Buy silk robes, face masks, and scented lotion so you and your guests can have a fun, relaxing time together.

6

Watch some empowering movies.

Get inspired by stories about single people living their best lives. Plus, movies are great distractions, and they can give your brain a much-needed rest during this stressful time. Order some pizza or Chinese food so you don’t have to worry about cooking for your guests. Then, pick movies that are a little bit cheesy or heartwarming to lift your spirits and make you feel great. Try titles like:
- Silver Linings Playbook
- Mrs. Doubtfire
- The Parent Trap
- Crazy, Stupid Love
- Kramer vs. Kramer
- Eat, Pray, Love

7

Sing karaoke.

Pour your heart out by singing your favorite breakup songs. Head to a karaoke bar or buy a karaoke machine to keep at your house. Make the party a potluck by having every guest bring their own dish. Pick songs to sing that make you feel great about your new single status, like:
- “Roar” by Katy Perry
- “Stronger” by Britney Spears
- “Shake it Off” by Taylor Swift
- “It’s My Life” by Bon Jovi
- “Stronger” by Kelly Clarkson

8

Host a dance party.

Shake off the last chapter of your life by dancing the night away. Invite your close friends out to a club or a bar with a dance floor, then spend the night moving and grooving. Make sure you wear an outfit that makes you look and feel your best!^{[2]
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- Don’t feel like going out? Have a dance party in your living room. Decorate with a divorce party banner, then throw on some empowering songs that make you want to move your body and dance along with your pals.

9

Devour your favorite sweet treats.

If you have a sweet tooth, use it to your advantage. Dive into the chocolate factory theme by setting up a dessert station. Buy your favorite candies, chocolates, and baked goods so you and your friends can indulge while you commemorate this occasion. Decorate with some candy-themed party decorations to make this night perfect.
- If you’re an avid baker, try making some sweet treats yourself! Baking cake pops or making chocolate chip cookies is a great way to please your guests.

10

Throw a puzzle night.

Have your guests “pick up the pieces” with you during your party. Looking for divorce party ideas for him? We've got you covered. Gather your friends and spend the night putting together puzzles as you sip on wine or cocktails. You could even make this one competitive by giving away a prize to whoever finishes their puzzle the fastest!
- Pair this party with finger food, like pretzels or mini sandwiches, so your guests can snack while they puzzle.

11

Visit an escape room.

Celebrate your “escape” from your marriage with this cheeky activity. This is another great divorce party idea for him. An escape room lets you work together with your BFFs and solve fun, engaging puzzles. Book an escape room for you and your closest pals, then celebrate with drinks and dinner afterward.
- Try ordering matching T-shirts for you and your guests with funny phrases, like “Til divorce do us part!” or, “Unhappily married, happily divorced!”

12

Book a weekend away.

Get out of town for a way to relax and refresh yourself. If your home is feeling a little stifling right now, book a weekend trip to the coast, the woods, or the mountains. Invite your closest friends along to keep you company as you look forward to the rest of your life.^{[3]
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- Need to find a place to stay? Try checking Airbnb for a fun overnight rental within your budget.

Expert Q&A

Question

How do I prepare for a divorce?

Jin S. Kim, MA
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Jin Kim is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based out of Los Angeles, California. Jin specializes in working with LGBTQ individuals, people of color, and those that may have challenges related to reconciling multiple and intersectional identities. Jin received his Masters in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University Los Angeles, with a specialization in LGBT-Affirming Psychology, in 2015.

Jin S. Kim, MA

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

Expert Answer

Focus on your mental health and taking care of yourself because going through a divorce can be an emotionally intense and difficult process. Practice self-care activities to help you feel better. Additionally, it's a good idea to see a therapist.