This article was co-authored by Nicole Barile, PhD, NTP and by wikiHow staff writer, Madeleine Criglow. Dr. Nicole Lippman-Barile is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and a Nutritional Therapy Practitioner (NTP) who practices in New York. As a psychologist, she specializes in treating anxiety and mood disorders, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), and related compulsive disorders. As a nutritional therapist, Dr. Lippman-Barile specializes in treating blood sugar dysregulation, digestive health, and mood disorders related to food. She holds a PhD in Clinical Psychology from Hofstra University and a Nutritional Therapy Practitioner Certification from the Nutritional Therapy Association.
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all i want is to be loved
Steps
Community Q&A
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QuestionHow can I make everyone stop hating me and letting me down?Community AnswerIf the people in your life are hating you and letting you down, you have the wrong kind of people in your life. Make new friends, cut yourself off from toxic family members if you must, and only associate with people who are kind and supportive.
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QuestionWhat if someone wants to be in a relationship with me, but doesn't like my lifestyle?Community AnswerThen that someone doesn't really want to be in a relationship with you, the person wants to be in a relationship with a fantasy image of you. Your lifestyle is a big part of who you are, and if the person in question can't accept that, then it's not the right relationship for you. While compromise is a part of any good relationship, people shouldn't change who they are, what they enjoy or how they live to suit a potential partner.
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QuestionHow do I show I want to be loved when wearing glasses?Community AnswerIt doesn't matter whether you're wearing glasses or not. If you have feelings for someone, be direct and tell them that. Ask them if they feel the same way.
Warnings
- As important as it is to be loved, remember that another person can't be your main source of happiness. That ultimately has to come from within.⧼thumbs_response⧽
- Heartbreak can be a devastating experience, but remember that you are worthy of love no matter what. Prioritize yourself, spend time with friends and family, and remember that you'll get more chances at love.⧼thumbs_response⧽
References
- ↑ Nicole Barile, PhD, NTP. Licensed Clinical Psychologist & Nutritional Therapist. Expert Interview. 12 August 2021.
- ↑ https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/self-esteem/art-20045374
- ↑ https://au.reachout.com/articles/10-tips-for-improving-your-self-esteem
- ↑ https://www.psychalive.org/embracing-vulnerability-strengthens-connections/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/lib/attention-couples-becoming-a-skilled-listener-and-effective-speaker
- ↑ https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/healthyliving/relationships-and-communication
- ↑ https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/campaigns/kindness/kindness-matters-guide
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/making-good-friends.htm
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/making-good-friends.htm
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/tips-for-finding-lasting-love.htm
- ↑ https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/lifes-most-worthwhile-lesson-learning-to-love-and-be-loved-0407155
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_stop_attachment_insecurity_from_ruining_your_love_life
About This Article
Everyone needs to be loved, but sometimes being loved isn’t so easy. If you’re having a tough time finding the love you need, start by working on building your own self-esteem, which will help you accept the love that you deserve. Spend time doing things you love, and take care of your body to show others that you are someone who deserves respect. You should also be kind and approachable so people will want to extend the same kindness and respect back to you. This also includes taking the time to listen to others and make them feel heard and cared about. Finding love can take time, but with patience and the right attitude, you will start to see more of it in your life. For more advice on finding love, like how to find love in your life by getting involved in your community, keep reading!