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You’ve probably been told not to talk to strangers, but it can be really rewarding to socialize with people you don’t know. While it may seem a little tough figuring out what to say, there are a lot of things you can do to make small talk with anyone that you meet. We’ll start off with some tips on friendly body language and move on to topics you can bring up to break the ice and encourage them to hold a conversation!
Steps
Warnings
- If a stranger makes you feel uncomfortable or if you don’t feel safe around them, avoid having a conversation with them.[22]⧼thumbs_response⧽
References
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202011/why-you-should-talk-strangers
About This Article
To talk to strangers, remember that people can't tell how nervous you are, so try to act confident even if you're not. When you're talking to someone, make eye contact with them, smile, and open up your body language to appear relaxed and help put the other person at ease. If you don't know what to talk about, try commenting on something that's going on around your or asking open-ended questions, like "What have you been up to tonight?" You could even ask them to explain something to you, like something that happened in the news, so they do most of the talking. To learn how to interact with strangers in different situations, like on a date, scroll down!