Does She Like Me?

Take this quiz to find out!

Some girls can feel like a total mystery. How can you figure out if she likes you just as a friend or if she wants something more?

When you pay close attention, you might start finding that her actions reveal all her secret feelings. So, does she have a crush? We’re here to help you solve the mystery. To crack the code, take our quiz!

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Questions Overview

1. How do her friends treat you?
  1. They told me that she likes me.
  2. They giggle and laugh with her when I walk into the room.
  3. They’ve mentioned her in conversation.
  4. They haven’t done anything out of the ordinary (or I don't know them).
2. You just walked into the same room as your crush. What’s she doing?
  1. She noticed me and started blushing.
  2. She looked at me immediately—but then quickly looked away.
  3. She smiled and waved.
  4. She didn’t notice when I walked in.
3. How does she usually greet you?
  1. She has a big smile and gives me a hug.
  2. She seems nervous and jittery—sometimes she won’t make eye contact.
  3. She plays it cool—she’s friendly but casual.
  4. She greets me like everyone else.
4. You just flirted with a different person in front of her. How does she react?
  1. She rolls her eyes and looks annoyed.
  2. She’s a little quieter with me than usual but warms up after a while.
  3. I saw her notice me flirting, but she doesn’t say anything.
  4. She doesn’t notice.
5. How does she act during your conversations?
  1. She blushes and her voice shakes—it’s like she’s nervous to talk to me!
  2. She’s enthusiastic and asks tons of questions.
  3. She smiles and acts friendly.
  4. She responds to my questions with short answers.
6. Does she remember the things you tell her?
  1. Definitely. My siblings’ names, my favorite food—she remembers everything!
  2. She remembers the important stuff, like my birthday.
  3. She remembers some big things, but she forgets other things.
  4. I don’t think she’s ever remembered anything important about me.
7. Is she supportive of you?
  1. Yes, she’s my #1 fan! She makes me feel great about myself.
  2. She compliments me when I have a big win or I ace a test.
  3. She's nice to me, but she’s nice to everyone. I don't think she treats me any different.
  4. Not really!
8. Do you ever catch her staring at you?
  1. Constantly! But when I catch her, she’ll quickly look away…
  2. Yeah, I’ve caught her looking once or twice.
  3. I think she stares at me a normal amount…
  4. I don’t think I’ve ever caught her staring at me.
9. Does she laugh at your jokes?
  1. Definitely. When I talk to her, I feel like the funniest person on the planet.
  2. She laughs—but I’m really funny, so that checks out.
  3. Sometimes, but not too often.
  4. Almost never.
10. Has she ever told you that she’s single?
  1. She mentions it constantly. She told me about her last break-up right after it happened.
  2. She’s definitely made sure that I know.
  3. She’s mentioned it once or twice.
  4. She’s never told me whether or not she’s single.
11. Which compliment can you imagine her giving you?
  1. “You’re an amazing person.”
  2. “You look so good today.”
  3. “I like your new haircut!”
  4. “Good job on your project!”
12. What are your text conversations like?
  1. So fun. She responds pretty quickly, asks me questions, and sends funny gifs!
  2. I usually text her first, but she responds to me quickly.
  3. We text a little, but sometimes she forgets to respond.
  4. Now that you mention it, she doesn’t respond to most of my texts.

Crushes, Self-Esteem, and Self-Worth

When you find out a girl is crushing on you, it can feel very flattering. You may even notice that your self-esteem suddenly skyrockets.

On the other hand, finding out that someone doesn’t like you, especially if you have a crush, can be tough to swallow. You may feel stressed, you may feel confused, and you may start to feel like there’s something wrong with you, even though you’re still the same amazing person you were yesterday.

Building and maintaining self-esteem that comes from within—not from how other people view you—will make you a happier, healthier person in the long run.

You might think of self-esteem as how much you like yourself, and that is an important part. But the truth is, self-esteem is all about being able to handle the tough times and create change in your life when you need it. Here are three key ingredients to high self-esteem:

Identity: This is understanding and loving yourself, just as you are. Having a sense of identity could mean that you respect and embrace your own goals, passions, beliefs, culture, sexuality, gender, and even your body.

Belonging: When you have a high sense of belonging, you feel respected and invested in the groups you’re a part of. This could be your work group, your friends, your family, or even clubs and sports.

Self-Efficacy: This refers to your ability to make and handle big changes in your life. When you know you have the strength to handle what life throws at you, to handle your workload, and to learn from the mistakes you make—you feel a sense of accomplishment and security.

Once you have these on lock, you’ll become a more centered, resilient person. Whether or not your crush likes you back won’t make or break your confidence.

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