Aries and Cancer Compatibility: Love, Sex, and More

Written by Stina Garbis | Edited by Janice Tieperman

Last Updated: March 29, 2023

The outspoken ram and the sensitive crab—does it get much more opposite than that? Not necessarily! While the fiery Aries and the oceanic Cancer are on opposite sides of the elemental spectrum, they have more in common than you may think. We’re here to outline all the pros and cons of this dynamic duo, so you can completely understand Aries and Cancer’s compatibility in love, sex, and life.

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Garbis, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

Section 1 of 4:

Aries and Cancer Relationship Overview

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An Aries-Cancer relationship can work if both partners are willing to put in the effort. On paper, Aries and Cancers have completely different priorities in life—the bold, headstrong Aries tends to put themselves first, while the supportive and caring Cancer likes to care for the people around them.Expert psychic Stina Garbis notes that "Aries are into themselves and whatever they like about themselves is what they are into", while Cancer needs to be "able to take care of you and be allowed to smother you a little bit." Ultimately, both signs need to sit down and chat about their most important needs and desires, so they can support each other the best that they can.
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Aries and Cancer create a cardinal-cardinal relationship. Aries and Cancer are both cardinal signs—in other words, both signs overlap with the start of a new season. Cardinal signs like to take action and aren’t afraid to keep things moving.^{[1]
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Research source} So, in a cardinal-cardinal relationship like Aries-Cancer, you definitely don’t have to worry about both signs waiting to make the first move.

Section 2 of 4:

Dating and Love Compatibility

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Romance: It doesn’t take long at all for the sparks to fly with these two. From their first meeting, Ariens shine bright with their bold and confident energy, which is super appealing to Cancers. An Aries, on the other hand, absolutely loves how eager and willing the nurturing Cancer is to care for them. According to astrology expert Stina Garbis, Cancer "is going to need opportunities to be close and to be helpful", while Aries "will think about you a lot and go wild with wanting to see you again."
- The bold Aries isn’t great at keeping their romantic feelings under wraps, and will share how they’re feeling right away.^{[2]
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Sex: Aries and Cancer can hit it off in the bedroom as long as they’re on the same page. Cancers like equal parts passion and romance, while Aries always has the heat turned up to 200%. No need to worry, though—these signs can definitely have a happy and healthy sex life as long as they’re able to talk openly about their preferences and meet in the middle as needed.
- For example, if Aries wanted to try something new in the bedroom, they could suggest a safe word for Cancer to use.

Section 3 of 4:

Emotional Compatibility

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Trust: An Aries-Cancer pairing can be very trusting if both partners give the relationship room to breathe and grow. Cancers mean well, but their frequent check-ins and “where are you going”-type questions can set an Aries on edge. Extra breathing room means a lot to an Aries, and they’ll appreciate their partner’s willingness to really meet and support their needs.
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Communication: The bold bull and the sensitive crab can have great conversations and heart-to-hearts once they adjust to each other’s communication styles. The typical Aries can be very direct and confrontational, which doesn’t always sit well with the non-confrontational crab. Both signs can benefit from setting clear boundaries in a conversation and making sure that the other person feels safe, supported, and heard.
- Aries have a natural courageousness that encourages them to share how they feel.^{[3]
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  Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} Unfortunately, Cancers don’t approach conversations in the same way.
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Emotions: While Cancer is (rightfully) labeled as the most emotional sign of the zodiac, Aries gets their fair share of feelings, too. These signs may process their emotions a little differently, but both signs experience their feelings in deep, passionate ways. Expert Stina Garbis warns Aries to "beware Cancer's changing moods, and give them space when they need it. Know that they'll come back around in a couple of days, renewed." At the end of the day, both Aries and Cancer can seriously relate to where the other is coming from—and that’s what matters!
- Cancers tend to be very upfront about their emotions, while Aries tend to repress and hide their feelings.
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Values: Cancers and Aries have different priorities, but they can be a united team if they compromise and work together. The domestic crab tends to be on the introverted side, and dreams of settling down with their loved ones, while the fiery bull prefers to be on the move and not tied down in one spot.^{[4]
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Research source} Ultimately, both signs need to sit down and discuss what they want in the long-term, even if it means meeting each other halfway.
- An Aries might apply for a job that lets them travel a lot, while the Cancer can stay put and manage their home.
- An Aries-Cancer couple might agree to move a little closer to the city as a happy medium.

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How can Aries and Cancer improve their compatibility?

Communication needs to be a top priority. Cancer and Aries aren’t always great at communicating in clear, effective way—the determined ram often likes to dive into situations headfirst, while the sensitive crab can’t always find the right way to express exactly what’s on their mind. Both signs can definitely benefit from a nice heart-to-heart once in a while.
- Aries tend to put themselves first.^{[5]
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  Stina Garbis
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  Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} Open communication can really help them see things from a new perspective.