How to Be Cute at School (Girls)

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Last Updated: May 10, 2021 References

While you're at school, it's important to be yourself while also focusing on your work. If you're a girl who feels that being cute is a key part of your own style and personality, then embrace it! But if trying to be cute becomes forced or unnatural to you, it's time to take a step back and just be yourself. There are many ways to bring out the cutest parts of yourself, and by doing things such as practicing good hygiene and smiling at everyone at school, others will be able to see just how cute you are as well.

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Choosing a Cute Outfit

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Choose bright or pastel colors to wear. Cute clothing tends to be associated with soft colors, not dark ones. Choose clothes with colorful or pastel tones, and stay away from dark colors such as black, gray, and brown.^{[1]
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- Pastel blues, purples, and pinks are good options for cute colors.
- Spend some time looking on Pinterest or fashion blogs for inspiration on how to create cute outfits.
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Pick out tops that are flowy or loose. Not only are these tops super comfortable, but they give off a very cute and laid-back vibe. Look for loose tops that have lace, ribbons, bows, or any other decorative add-on. Patterned or printed shirts are always a great option, just make sure the colors stay light!^{[2]
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Wear skirts and shorts that are pastel-colored or patterned. Skirts are a great clothing option for looking cute. Choose skirts that are flowy and made of a comfortable fabric. Picking shorts that have flowers, stripes, or another pattern on them will show off your sense of style. Stick to colorful or pastel colors, and make sure your skirts and shorts are school-appropriate.^{[3]
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- Be careful not to choose shorts or skirts that are too short, and stick to your school's dress code.
- If you're not a fan of skirts, no problem! Look for pants or jeans that have patterns on them or are made of a unique fabric or color that you like. Embellished jeans are always a cute option, too.
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Throw on a dress for the ultimate cute option. The right dress will do wonders for making your outfit look cute. Choose a dress style that’s appropriate for school — short- or long-sleeved dresses are best, but if you’re allowed to wear spaghetti strap dresses, go for it! Pick out dresses in light colors, and look for special additions such as lace or pleats.^{[4]
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- Some school dress codes will allow you to wear a spaghetti strap dress if you wear a sweater over your shoulders, so see if this is an option for you.
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Opt for outerwear and shoes that have flair. To take your outerwear to the next level of cute, find jackets that have their own style. Look for large buttons on jackets, outerwear made of a unique material, or coats that have floral or animal prints. When it comes to shoes, look for pretty colors, fabrics, and unique patterns as well.^{[5]
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- Options for cute shoes include ballet flats, colorful or patterned sneakers, and stylish boots.
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Add leggings to your outfit for added warmth. When the weather gets cooler, your skirts and dresses aren’t going to keep you warm. Leggings these days come in tons of different colors, patterns, and styles. Choose leggings that are light in color, or even opt for tights that have a feminine touch.^{[6]
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Accessorize your outfit to add personality. To make your outfit even better, add some jewelry or a hair accessory. Find some statement pieces that you love, such as a pair of silver heart earrings or a patterned headband. You don’t need to go crazy with the accessorizing, but adding one or two pieces can greatly improve your outfit.^{[7]
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- If you wear glasses, find a pair that comes in a pretty color or unique design. You can do the same for sunglasses, too.

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Doing Your Hair and Makeup

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Braid your hair for a put-together look. Braiding your hair will not only look cute, but it’s also a great way to keep your hair out of your face. There are many different options, from a waterfall braid to a French braid, or even the traditional braid. Choose a style that works with your hair type and length.^{[8]
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Curl your hair for a soft, girly look. Curls are always cute, as they give your face a softened look. There are several ways you can curl your hair. By using things such as a curling iron, flat iron, or hair rollers, you’ll have curly hair in no time.^{[9]
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- Some methods of curling your hair, such as using hair rollers or braids, should be started the night before. Plan ahead and make sure you have enough time to properly style your hair.
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Pull your hair into a ponytail for a quick style. For days when you want a quick hair fix that’s also stylish and cute, pull your hair into a ponytail. This could be a side ponytail, pigtails, a high ponytail — whichever style you think looks the cutest.
- Add an accessory such as a colorful scrunchie or headband to your ponytail if you want.
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Wear your hair naturally if it doesn't need styling. If you happen to be one of those girls who rolls out of bed with naturally beautiful hair, then you’re ready to go! Either give it a quick brush or use a styling product to bring out volume and tame unruly hairs. Wearing your hair naturally gives you a soft, gorgeous look.^{[10]
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Use a hair accessory if you have short hair. If your hair is on the shorter side or you don’t have a lot of time in the mornings, opt for a hair accessory. Headbands, scrunchies, clips, and so many other hair accessories are available in a variety of colors, patterns, and fabrics. Visit an accessory store, drug store, or big-box store near you to pick out a new hair accessory.
- Most hair accessories cost less than $10, and they can be found online as well.
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Apply your makeup minimally for a natural look. Wearing makeup can be a great way to boost your self-confidence and cover up any imperfections you don’t want seen, but don’t overdo it. When it comes to looking cute while wearing makeup, less is more. Highlight your face using a blush, and pick out a natural or light shade of lip gloss. Swipe on a little bit of mascara if you have light eyelashes, but keep any eyeliner very minimal.^{[11]
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- If you feel like you don’t need makeup, awesome! Only apply it if you want to.
- Putting a thin line of eyeliner on each of your top eyelids will make your eyes stand out more, but avoid putting much, if any, on the bottom lid.

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Perfecting Your Cute Personality

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Be confident. Being cute isn’t just about your appearance, it’s about having self-confidence and feeling good in your own skin. Embrace all aspects of yourself and don’t spend time worrying about insecurities. If you think confident thoughts on the inside, that confidence will show through on the outside.^{[12]
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- Doing things such as taking care of your personal hygiene, having great posture, and making eye contact with people when you talk to them will help bring out your confidence.
- Think about activities you're good at or talents you might have. If these are things you love doing, take more time to pursue them — this will help increase your confidence as well.
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Talk using feminine tones. People don’t tend to associate “cute” with a loud, abrasive voice. You don’t need to whisper, but talk softly. Use tones that are warm and bubbly, without speaking too loudly.^{[13]
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Keep a positive outlook. The happier and more positive that you are around others, the more they’re going to want to hang out with you. Spread your positive outlook to others by saying positive things and cheering people up when they’re feeling down. A cute girl is cute because her attitude radiates bubbliness, kindness, and acceptance of herself and others.^{[14]
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Smile as often as possible. One of the best ways to radiate positive vibes is to show how happy you are with a smile. If people see you smiling, they’ll be much more likely to want to interact with you. Give a smile to people you pass in the halls, the peers that sit next to you in class, and to your teachers. A little happiness goes a long way.^{[15]
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Be yourself. If you’re spending all of your time trying to be something that you’re not, you aren’t going to be happy. Relax and just be yourself — don’t stress about your appearance or what people think of you. By being your own cute, authentic self, everyone around you will think you're cute as well.^{[16]
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- Cute girls tend to observe more and talk less, so if you’re not super outspoken, that’s OK! Embrace your shyness and use it to your advantage — oftentimes, shy people are seen as coy or flirtatious, which can be very cute.^{[17]
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- If you are outspoken, don’t feel like you need to suddenly convert to being shy. Keep being your outgoing self, but just try to listen to others as much as you talk.
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Stick to your studies. Don’t let being cute become your entire focus. A cute girl is intelligent and interested in learning more about the world, so don’t forget to focus on your schoolwork as well. Doing your homework and studying hard will make you a cute girl who is knowledgeable and mature.
- Don’t pretend to be dumb or clueless because you think it’s cute. You should be able to show off how cute you are while also being yourself.
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Be a friend to everyone. Cute girls are nice to everyone that they talk to and are able to make others feel comfortable when they’re around. To do this, try to be friendly towards all of your classmates. Compliment someone on their shirt, say hello in the halls, or help out a classmate with their schoolwork. By being nice to everyone, your peers will see you as a cute, friendly person.^{[18]
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Be polite. This one is simple — the more polite and well-mannered you are, the cuter. Everyone likes someone who is polite and kind to them, so try to be friendly and courteous whenever you interact with someone, whether it’s a peer or a teacher.

Community Q&A

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Can I wear my fursuit to school?

Community Answer

Your school's dress code may prohibit wearing costumes or outfits which may cause a distraction to others in class. If not, go for it - note, however, that you will get quite warm, so be sure to stay hydrated.
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I'm not allowed to wear makeup, and I don't have any time to do my hair. I'm not a very good student, how will I do this?

Community Answer

Try to figure out your persona and stick to it. Whether it be the cute quirky girl who doesn't try too hard or the shy girl who perks up at moments, be true to yourself.
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How do I get a date when I can't even talk to guys?

Community Answer

Before jumping in the deep end and trying to get a date, try focusing on building friendships with some guys you don't find attractive. Practice talking to them and hanging out with them, and you'll soon see there's nothing to be scared of, they're the same as girls, just a little bit less mature! Once you feel more comfortable, then you can start talking to a guy you actually like.

Warnings

Make sure you follow your school's dress code guidelines, and stay away from clothing that exposes too much.

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