How to Attract an Aries Taurus Cusp Woman

Written by Tara Divina | Edited by Madeleine Criglow

Last Updated: May 28, 2022 References

If you're crushing on an Aries Taurus cusp woman, get ready for the thrill of a lifetime! Cusp signs are born during the period in which the sun moves from 1 sun sign to another, which makes them have the qualities of both signs. Aries Taurus cusps have the fiery spirit of an Aries and the drive and determination of a Taurus. This intense combo has earned them the title of the "Cusp of Power." To attract an Aries Taurus cusp woman, you'll need to let her lead the way and respect her independence. Keep reading for some more tips on how to win the heart of your unique cusp crush.^{[1]
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This article is based on an interview with our professional vedic astrologer, Tara Divina. Check out the full interview here.

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Compliment her on all of her talents.

An Aries Taurus woman is likely to have a ton of amazing qualities. To win her affection, tell your crush all the things you value about her often. If you shower her with kind and affectionate compliments, she'll be hooked on spending time with you.^{[2]
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- Maybe she just texted you a picture of a painting she's working on (Aries Taurus cusp women are known for their strength in the arts). Text her something like, "Wow, I love your penchant for details. You're such a wonderful artist!"^{[3]
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- Perhaps you really love this Aries Taurus woman's determination to follow her dreams. Tell her by saying something like, "I love that you go for what you want. I'm so impressed by you."

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Engage in some fiery debates.

An Aries Taurus cusp woman wants someone who can keep up with her. Show her that you're the perfect match for her quick wit and intelligence by engaging her mind.^{[4]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} Bring up topics like art, politics, and philosophy, and see what she has to say. Share your opinion, too, and don't be afraid to disagree. The Taurus in her will like the fact that you own your opinions and will be attracted to your confidence.
- You might try sending her an interesting article on a current event in politics or pop culture. Say something like, "I've got so many thoughts on this and wanna know your opinion!"

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Plan spontaneous and adventurous dates.

An Aries Taurus cusp woman doesn't like to be bored. Appeal to the Aries in her by keeping things exciting and doing new things every time you hang out. You'll learn more about each other by indulging in new experiences, and she'll be super into your lust for life and excitement!^{[5]
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- Interesting date ideas include going to a drive-in movie, playing after-hours mini-golf, and attending the concert of a new band.

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Live in the moment to keep things exciting.

Avoid making plans super far into the future. This woman enjoys spontaneity and freedom (you can thank her Aries tendencies for that). Setting a bunch of dates in advance may cramp her style. Instead of setting a date every time you see her, simply enjoy the experience of hanging out with her. Look her in the eye, engage in interesting conversations, and be present. She'll appreciate your mindful way of approaching life and will probably end up texting you to hang out again.^{[6]
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- When you do make plans, avoid scheduling them too far out into the future. Ask her to hang out within the next couple of weeks instead of 3 months from now.

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Listen to what she has to say.

Aries Taurus cusps usually have some pretty strong opinions. Anytime she shares them with you, listen attentively and ask follow-up questions. Aries Taurus cusps value being heard and truly understood by their partner. If you show her that you're willing to really listen, she'll start to see you in that light.^{[7]
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- Maybe the two of you just got out of a movie and she's fired up by the plot inconsistencies. Take an interest in her opinion and ask her something like, "I hadn't thought of it that way. What scenes stuck out to you the most?"

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Seek her out for advice.

Show her you value her point of view. An Aries Taurus cusp's sharp mind can provide a wealth of interesting and helpful insights, and they're attracted to someone who can see that in them. Next time you're in a bind, try texting or reaching out to your Aries Taurus cusp crush to see what she has to say. She'll no doubt be into it!^{[8]
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- Maybe you just got a job offer in a new field and aren't sure if you should take it. Text her something like, "Hey, I've got some exciting news and might be in need of some advice! Wanna talk?"

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Let her have control.

Make her feel like she's calling the shots. Due to their dominant natures, Aries Taurus cusp women want to be sure they have a say in how their relationships progress. To do that early on, see if she wants to pick where you go on dates. As things progress, you might also try waiting for her to define the relationship instead of bringing it up first. ^{[9]
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- If you ask her out for a dinner date, you might say, "I'd love to get dinner together sometime this week. Do you have any restaurant recommendations we could try? I feel like you know all the cool spots."
- Avoid ordering dinner for her or telling her what to do (even if you're trying to be romantic!). She'll be more attracted to you if you let her take the reins.

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Respect her.

An Aries Taurus cusp needs someone to treat her like an equal. The Aries qualities in this cusp sign make her particularly independent (some might even say pretty dominant). Show her that you love that about her and she'll be super into you. Always ask for her opinion when you're making plans, value her insight even when you disagree with her, and give her your full attention when you spend time together.^{[10]
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- Avoid talking down to her or diminishing her accomplishments. If you're at all threatened by her strength, an Aries Taurus cusp will be gone fast!

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Give her space.

An Aries Taurus cusp needs plenty of alone time to thrive. She's got big dreams and is busy seeing them through! Give her the space to do that by accepting her busy schedule, cheering her on from the sidelines, and avoiding any temptation to be threatened by her independence.^{[11]
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- If she says she's busy writing her thesis and can't hang out that week, text her something like, "I totally understand. Hope thesis writing has been going well! I can't wait to read it when you're done."
- If you run into her at a party, approach her and make conversation, but don't expect her to hang out with you all night. Instead, spend a few minutes talking, wish her a great time, and be comfortable with her hanging with other people, too.
- She'll be super attracted to the fact that you're supportive of her independent spirit and will likely end up wanting to be around you more.

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Comfort her when she's feeling down.

An Aries Taurus cusp woman needs encouragement every now and then. With so many big plans for the future, she needs someone to boost her up again when any fears and doubts start to appear. Be that for her by motivating her to keep going no matter what and being a shoulder to cry on when things get tough. The Taurus side of her will be super attracted to your displays of genuine human kindness.^{[12]
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- Let's say she just texted you that she's had a rough day and is super bummed to have to work on homework when she gets home. Surprise her with a milkshake and some fries to brighten up her study session.
- If she starts doubting her big dreams, give her a pep talk. You might say, "Things are tough right now, but I know you'll come out on top. You're the most driven and talented person I know."

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Make her feel safe.

She may be strong, but she still needs someone to rely on. To really attract an Aries Taurus cusp woman, show her that she can trust you and depend on you long term. Always keep your plans and be on time, offer to help her out when she's super busy, and follow through when you make any promises. The Taurus in her will be drawn to your dependable, honest nature, and the Aries in her will be happy to have found someone so steadfast.^{[13]
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- Always be on time for your dates and try your best not to reschedule. If you've got to change your plans, give her plenty of notice and pick a new date and time. Otherwise, she may not see you as super reliable.
- Help her out anytime she needs it. If she misses her bus before a big presentation, for example, offer to give her a ride and ask if there's anything you can bring to help her prepare for the big day!