How to Attract a Sagittarius Man As an Aries Woman

Written by Angel Eyedealism | Edited by Glenn Carreau

Last Updated: May 21, 2022

As matching fire signs, a Sagittarius man and an Aries woman make a powerful and passionate pair—but how do you grab his attention? Sagittarius guys love to meet new people and flirt around, but with the right attitude and knowledge of his preferences, he'll set his sights on you. Aries women are naturally bold, independent, and adventurous, and you can use those qualities to your advantage!^{[1]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Here's everything you need to know about attracting a Sagittarius man and keeping him interested as an Aries woman.

This article is based on an interview with our professional astrologer, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

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Play hard-to-get.

He loves the excitement of chasing you. Be just a little unavailable at first to make your Sagittarius work for your attention. You don't have to ignore him; just hint that you're busy with friends, work, or hobbies so that he knows your time is valuable. A Sagittarius guy will pursue you eagerly if he feels like it's a challenge!^{[2]
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- Be open with him but hold back information every so often. Say, "Hmm, maybe I'll tell you on our next date!" in response to a question.
- Over text, you could sign off by writing, "Gotta go! I'm meeting some friends for a drink. I'll be free later this week, so be sure to text me, okay? 😉"

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Have open-minded conversations.

This sign loves to talk about anything and everything. As an Aries, you've got an intellectual spark that will excite your Sagittarius guy. Bring up interesting subjects, including philosophy, religion, and politics, and be open-minded.^{[3]
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Research source} Sagittarius is a mutable sign, meaning he doesn't like to be rigid in his thinking: he wants to explore as many perspectives as possible.
- Send him a recent story in the news. "Have you read this article yet? Let me know what you think. I always love hearing your perspective!"
- Speak your mind freely with Sagittarius! You're so bright as an Aries that you get bored easily, but lively Sagittarius is one of the few signs who can keep up with you.

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Talk about travel.

A Sagittarius wants to be worldly and dreams of seeing new horizons.^{[4]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Ask him about his travel plans or any places he's been. Bring up the fun vacations you've been on, or talk about the places you'd like to visit in the future. Sagittarius is attracted to someone who shares his desire to go out and see the world!
- For a good icebreaker question, you could ask, "If money weren't an issue and you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go, what would you do, and why?"
- Another great question is, "What was the best vacation you've been on, and why was it so much fun?"

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Flirt playfully and tease him.

Flirting is a fun game for bold Sagittarius. Your direct and naturally flirtatious attitude as an Aries makes you a great partner for Sagittarius, so capture his interest with witty and suggestive comments.^{[5]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Flirt enthusiastically, offer him compliments and don't be afraid to get a little silly. Sagittarius guys love to laugh!
- "You look amazing in that shirt! Of course, you look great every day."
- "What are you thinking about right now—and why is it me? 😉"
- Since he's so playful, suggest a game like 'Truth or Dare.' Then on a truth, say, "What was your first thought when you met me?" or "Why are you so cute?"
- Make direct eye contact with him and hold his gaze while smiling slightly, giving him a "come hither" look.

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Be active together.

Sagittarius men love outdoor activities and sports. Luckily, you probably have this in common with him as an Aries lady. Invite him to do a physical activity that you both enjoy, such as jogging, hiking, or going for bike rides. Ask him about his favorite sport and try it out with him.^{[6]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} You can bond over your love of physical fitness and use it as a way to spend more time together.
- You could say, "Wanna join me on my morning run tomorrow? There's a spot on the hill with the most gorgeous sunrise!"
- "Do you enjoy rock climbing? I've been dying to try out the new indoor climbing place that opened up nearby."

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Go on spontaneous adventures.

Indulge his need to explore and try new things. Sagittarius prefers to live in the moment, whether he's dating or single.^{[7]
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Research source} Be his partner in crime and go along with any fun adventures that he proposes—and make your own spur-of-the-moment suggestions too. Sagittarius will take any excuse to get out of the house.
- You could say, "Let's go on an adventure together. Want to try a new hike this weekend?"
- Invite him out to a social event. "There's a party at the local bar tonight, and I need to cut loose! Wanna be my plus one?"
- Plan a day of adventure where you two go together and visit places in your area that you've never seen before.

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Assert your independence.

A shared love of autonomy is attractive to free-spirited Sagittarius. That's one of the reasons you're a great match: Aries ladies also have a deep need to maintain their independence regardless of relationship status.^{[8]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Hang out with your friends and take time to focus on your solo hobbies. Show your Sagittarius that independence is just as important to you as it is to him.
- You could also invite your Sagittarius to join group hangouts with your friends. Sagittarius guys love meeting new people—and neither of you will feel stifled because you're part of a larger gathering.

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Flaunt your confidence.

Sagittarius are attracted to women who share their self-assuredness. Tell him about your goals and accomplishments to give yourself a confidence boost, and don't be afraid to make the first move in asking him out. Your Sagittarius will find any display of confidence and bravery irresistible.
- You could say, "I've been working really hard for a promotion at work—and this month, I'm going for it!"
- When flirting, you could say, "This is me asking you out. Want to get coffee on Saturday?"
- Aries signs tend to have a good deal of confidence, so you should have no problem standing out from the crowd and impressing your Sagittarius.

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Stay upbeat.

He's naturally optimistic and likes to be around similar energy. Look on the bright side, smile, laugh, and keep the conversation lighthearted—at least for the beginning of the relationship. Sagittarius doesn't want to deal with heavy or depressing things while you're still getting to know each other; he wants to know you'll be a source of positivity in his life.
- Support his endeavors. "Good luck at work today! You're going to kill that presentation!"
- You could send him a happy 'thinking of you' text. "Hey, handsome! Just letting you know you've been on my mind. 😘"

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Be honest.

This sign shares Aries' preference for total honesty and directness. Tell your Sagittarius how you feel about him, especially if he asks. Be truthful about anything else; honesty is the key to communication in a Sagittarius-Aries relationship. You'll be comfortable confiding in each other because you both know you're trustworthy.
- It's easy for Sagittarius guys to trust but challenging to renew that trust once broken. Because Aries is just as keen on truthfulness, this likely won't be a problem for you.

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Give him space.

Sagittarius guys love freedom and don't want a controlling partner.^{[9]
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Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.} Accept his need to go off and do his own thing sometimes and avoid asking him for commitment before he offers it. Your fiery Aries temper can lead to jealousy, especially since Sagittarius guys are hopeless flirts. Nonetheless, if you give him the space he needs, he'll be more comfortable committing to you.

Expert Q&A

Question

What happens when a Sagittarius falls in love?

Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.

Angel Eyedealism

Astrologer & Performance Artist

Expert Answer

He will be there for you. This sign is famous for making dramatic escapes, so, if a Sag invites you to move in with them or on a trip somewhere, that means they really want you to join them on their constant movement.
Question

What does a Sagittarius man want in a woman?

Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.

Angel Eyedealism

Astrologer & Performance Artist

Expert Answer

They're the rock stars of the zodiac! They're very fiery and dynamic. So, they definitely want that in a partner.