How to Attract a Leo Woman As a Cancer Man

Co-authored by Stina Garbis and Jennifer Mueller, JD

Last Updated: March 9, 2022 References

Has a fiery, majestic Leo woman captured your Cancerian heart? At first glance, the two of you seem like opposites: sun and moon, masculine and feminine, fire and water. But as the saying goes, opposites attract! A lioness has no shortage of admirers, but as a sensitive Cancer man, you have the power to sweep her off her feet. Here, we've got all the tips you need to get that lovely Leo lady to look your way.

1

Show her that you're confident.

The self-assured Leo woman wants a man as confident as she is. While Cancers have the reputation for being reserved and introverted—maybe even a little shy—that doesn't mean you aren't sure of yourself. When you're around her, stick to areas where you know you excel so she can see your quiet confidence in full bloom.
- For example, if you're a strong soccer player, why not invite her to watch you play? She'll swoon as she watches you boldly attack the ball.
- If you're a musician, woo her by learning and playing her favorite song.

2

Express your admiration for her.

A Leo woman loves to be showered with compliments. But not just any compliment will do! Praise her for her accomplishments and who she is as a person rather than her appearance. Let her know that you can see who she is below the surface.^{[1]
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- For example, you might say, "I'm so impressed by how you remember details about everyone's life. It shows how much you care for people."
- She's proud of her work ethic, so zone in on that as well. For example, you might say, "Wow, you worked really hard on that project and it shows! Your presentation was incredible!"

3

Make her the center of your attention.

The typical Leo lady loves to be doted on.^{[2]
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Research source} When you're around her, show her that you only have eyes for her. This doesn't mean you have to wait on her hand and foot—simply keep your focus on her. Cancerians are known for being great listeners, so use that to your advantage when she's talking.
- Let her know you're listening by making plenty of eye contact. You might even say something like, "When you talk to me, the rest of the world disappears." She'll love that because she knows you're focused on her.
- The last thing you want to do is ignore her. She won't react well to that and might end up ignoring you in return. Deep down, she's sensitive and afraid of getting hurt.

4

Demonstrate your intelligence.

A smart Leo lady is looking to meet her intellectual match. Ask her plenty of questions. Curiosity is a sign of intelligence and shows her that you're interested in learning about the things she's into. Cancer men are known to have a knack for research, so dig into her interests. When she starts talking, you'll have something meaningful to contribute to the conversation.
- You might also casually mention school or work accomplishments that show your smarts. For example, if you recently won a student research award, you might tell her more about the winning project.

5

Let her come after you.

A lioness typically loves the thrill of the chase. This shouldn't be hard for you, Cancer, since you tend to be pretty reserved and aren't usually inclined to make the first move. Flirt with her enough that she knows you're interested, then retreat. Continue to encourage her pursuit so she feels secure.
- For example, if she's talking about her favorite band, you might mention that you have tickets to their show next month. If she says she wants to go, you might say something like, "I suppose I could be persuaded to take you with me."
- Liking someone makes her feel vulnerable (and she doesn't like that), so a little encouragement will go a long way. For example, you might casually say something like, "I hope you know I really like spending time with you."
- She might "chase" you with compliments, gifts, and flirtatious behavior.^{[3]
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Try to relax and go with the flow a little more.

A Leo woman is typically pretty spontaneous and carefree.^{[4]
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- For example, you might mention that you're free on Friday and say, "I'd like to spend some time with you. Where would you like to go?" That puts her in the driver's seat.
- Be sure to set strong boundaries early on, though, or you might end up feeling overwhelmed. For example, you might tell her that you need at least two days' notice for a change in plans—that can help her keep her spontaneity in check.

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Treat her with respect.

Leos typically know they're something special and expect to be treated like royalty. As a Cancer, you have a reputation for being chivalrous and gentlemanly, so this probably comes naturally to you.^{[5]
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Research source} Even so, it's worth noting that if you want to attract—and keep—a Leo lady's attention, you need to show up on time for dates, check in on her periodically, and ask about her feelings.
- Feelings are a big one for the lioness, too, because she often won't express them unless she feels really safe and secure with you.
- Doing things like being on time and calling or texting when you say you will tells her that you're dependable and trustworthy. That's a huge part of her feeling safe with you.

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Let her see your playful side.

Leo women are known for their childlike energy and enthusiasm.^{[6]
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Research source} Cancerian men are known for their childlike spirits as well, so chances are the two of you will vibe on this. A little light-hearted teasing and spontaneous bursts of friskiness are sure to make her smile.
- For example, if you're walking to a café together, you might poke her on the arm and say, "Tag, you're it!" and then take off running. Her infectious laughter will follow you.
- You might also suggest childlike excursions for a date. A trip to the zoo? She's definitely game.

9

Make dramatic displays of affection.

It might take something big for you to stand out in the crowd. Leos are social creatures and, as outgoing as she is, you can bet there's more than one guy trying to draw her in. Lucky for you, she's not shy and won't get embarrassed when you pull out all the stops on a lavish, over-the-top declaration of your adoration of her.^{[7]
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- For example, if you're out at a bar, you might play a special song on the jukebox and ask her to dance with you when it comes on. She'll love this even more if there's not anyone else dancing!
- Unfortunately, if you're shy (as Cancers are known to be), this might be a challenge. Just own it! The effort will be all the more endearing to her if you had to step out of your comfort zone to get it done.
- This is the lady you take to a baseball game and get her name up on the scoreboard screen for all to see—the kiss cam was made for a Leo.
- Leos are big fans of PDA, so feel free to take things in that direction.^{[9]
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Spoil her with lavish gifts and experiences.

A lioness has regal tastes and will swoon for the finer things. While she might very well enjoy more casual fare, her tastes typically run on the luxury end of the spectrum. This shouldn't be a problem for you, though, Cancer, since you're known for the thoughtful gifts you heap on anyone you adore.
- Look to her style choices for hints on what she might like. She'll really appreciate a quality accessory that matches clothes she already owns.
- Always choose quality over quantity. A Leo woman would rather have one designer handbag than three knock-offs.
- If you are on a budget, go for experiences over material things—she'll relish a new adventure (and get loads of content for her social media).

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Invite her to create something with you.

Both of you are creative and your creative urges complement each other. As a Cancer, you probably prefer more of a supporting role, while Leos tend to crave the spotlight. Together, you might create the next masterpiece.
- For example, if you're a writer, you might write a spoken word piece for her to perform.
- You could also write and produce videos for her to perform in and make her the next YouTube or TikTok star.

Expert Q&A

Question

How do Leos act when they like someone?

Stina Garbis
Psychic Astrologer
Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

Stina Garbis

Psychic Astrologer

Expert Answer

Leos are natural flirts—they'll twirl their hair, flex, puff out their chest, check their posture, or have a sexy walk or strut. Think "big cat"!