How to Add Someone to Your Mortgage

Co-authored by Ryan Baril

Last Updated: February 19, 2023 Approved

Many people wish to add someone to their mortgage with a major life change, most commonly marriage. If you and your spouse (or partner, parent, child, or friend) are living together and sharing the rest of your expenses, why shouldn’t you bear the legal and financial responsibilities of homeownership together? Unfortunately, your lender will probably not make it easy for you to do this. Moreover, it might not be in your best interests. If you do decide to go down this path, make sure you are armed with the right information.

Part 1

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Understanding How It Works

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Contact your lender. There’s no harm in asking your bank or mortgage company if you can simply add a person to your mortgage. Be prepared for them to say no, however—in fact, this will be their answer in most cases. Instead, they will likely make you refinance your home, in effect taking out an entirely new mortgage.
- Adding a person to your mortgage without refinancing can only work if the mortgage is assumable. Federal Housing Administration (FHA) loans tend to be assumable, but other types may not be.
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Shop around. Since you are getting a new mortgage anyway, don’t feel obligated to stay with your lender. Read about how to compare mortgage programs here.

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Fill out a Uniform Residential Loan Application while looking for a lender. You will be asked for your full names and Social Security numbers along with the amounts of income you receive and debt you owe. Both of you will also need to submit originals of several documents, including the following:
- Pay stubs
- Bank statements
- Your two most recent tax returns
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Work with your lender as they process the new loan. Mortgage underwriting usually takes up to a few weeks. If your lender requests more information or documents from you, respond in a timely manner to help the process along.^{[1]
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Sign your documents and pay closing costs. You will now have added this person to your mortgage. Before you do, however, think about your personal situation in relation to the other options that are out there.

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Evaluating Your Finances

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Have a conversation with the other person. If you are considering adding someone to your mortgage, you probably have some idea of his financial history. A vague idea of his history is not enough here, though. Getting exact numbers where applicable, make sure you know specifics of the following:
- Income
- Debt, including from student loans
- Credit score
- Whether he has declared bankruptcy or faced foreclosure in the past seven years
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Think about how the other person’s finances will affect your chances. If you were able to get a mortgage in the first place, it is because your lender believed you had the income to afford the house and a history that made you creditworthy. If you want to add someone to your mortgage, the lender will take both of your incomes, credit scores, etc. into account. While adding a second person’s income can help, other factors can work against this.
- For instance, imagine that you have excellent credit (anything above 750). This helped you qualify for favorable terms, including a lower interest rate, on your original mortgage.
- Now, imagine that the other person has poor credit—a score of between 600-649.
- You might think that the bank or mortgage company will average these two scores together, landing you somewhere in the good to fair range. You could probably still get a decent offer with a score like this.
- Unfortunately, this is not what they will do. Instead, they will only consider the lower score.
- Not only are you unlikely to receive an offer with favorable terms in this scenario, but you may also not get a mortgage at all.
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Look at interest rates. Have interest rates fallen dramatically since you got your original loan? Conversely, have they increased? This is one more factor to consider when thinking about refinancing.
- Lower interest rates could mean more favorable terms, so many people choose to refinance under these economic conditions.
- Higher interest rates could mean less favorable terms, so think carefully before deciding to refinance in this climate.
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Be prepared to pay some fees again. Remember all of the closing costs and other fees that you had to pay when you first secured a mortgage? You will need to cover these expenses once again if you decide to refinance.
- Closing costs for refinancing can be very expensive—anywhere between three and six percent of the remaining principle on your loan.
- This means that, if you have an outstanding balance of $150,000 left on your mortgage, closing costs alone could be between $4,500 and $9,000.
- You may be able to get a discount on some fees if you have the original survey and original Owner's Title Policy with you. This only works if there have been no major changes to the property since purchasing.

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Considering Other Options

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Think about adding this person to the deed of the house. If you want your spouse, parent, or child to have a stake in the house (when it comes to inheriting, for instance) but don’t want to go through the hassle of refinancing, consider adding this person to the deed of the house. He won’t be legally liable for the mortgage the same way you are, but he will be one of the owners of the house (once the bank is paid off). Keep in mind that this process can be expensive.^{[2]
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Consider making a private agreement. There are many reasons, both practical and emotional, why you would want to add someone to your mortgage. But sometimes it’s not necessary. You may find it easier just to have the person who is moving in pay you each month, as a tenant would a landlord, or set up a joint bank account to which each person contributes and is only used for mortgage payments.
- This unofficial set-up works best if you are a married couple. If you were to die, your lender would be legally obligated to let your spouse take over the mortgage.
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Talk to a lawyer. It is important to plan for contingencies with someone on your mortgage, but it is even more important without. Nobody wants to think about it, but death, divorce, and other unforeseen events happen. Consider a legally-binding document that answers the following questions:^{[3]
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- How will costs be divided? You both contribute to the mortgage, but you probably do not make the same amount of money. How much should each person contribute? How will this change if one of you loses your job or goes bankrupt?
- What will happen to the house if you break up? Will you sell it, or will one of you stay there? If the former, how will proceeds from the sale be divided? If the latter, who will be responsible for costs?
- What will happen if one of you dies? If you are unmarried and/or do not have your spouse or partner’s name on the mortgage or deed, the house may not automatically go to him. If this is what you want, talk to a lawyer to make sure the necessary documents are in place.

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How do I add a child in the event of my death the house will pass to him?

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Ryan Baril is the Vice President of CAPITALPlus Mortgage, a boutique mortgage origination and underwriting company founded in 2001. Ryan has been educating consumers about the mortgage process and general finance for almost 20 years. He graduated from the University of Central Florida in 2012 with a B.S.B.A. in Marketing.

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You must do this in your will with a lawyer.
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Can a new wife be added to her husband's house mortgage if she has bad credit?

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Ryan Baril is the Vice President of CAPITALPlus Mortgage, a boutique mortgage origination and underwriting company founded in 2001. Ryan has been educating consumers about the mortgage process and general finance for almost 20 years. He graduated from the University of Central Florida in 2012 with a B.S.B.A. in Marketing.

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The wife will need to qualify for the loan. If her credit score is below the minimum, she cannot be added.
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Do I have to add my spouse to the title to add them to mortgage?

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Ryan Baril is the Vice President of CAPITALPlus Mortgage, a boutique mortgage origination and underwriting company founded in 2001. Ryan has been educating consumers about the mortgage process and general finance for almost 20 years. He graduated from the University of Central Florida in 2012 with a B.S.B.A. in Marketing.

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Yes, anyone on the mortgage should also be on title.